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Trusting Again After Abuse
Narcissists Cannot Change
Songs About Narcissistic Abuse
We are often pointed to songs that have helped survivors, these songs below are some of our favorites.Read More
CRAFT Addiction Treatment and Codependency
Though powerless over an alcoholic-addict’s ultimate behavior, we can influence them to get addiction treatment using CRAFT. It’s a Community Reinforcement and Family Training program for addiction treatment developed in the 70s that has been effective in training “Concerned Significant Others” (CSO)s of treatment-resistant substance abusers to start treatment. The program has been more than […]Read More
Senior Sociopaths – How to Recognize and Escape by Donna Andersen
My new book, Senior Sociopaths — How to Recognize and Escape Lifelong Abusers, is now available in the Lovefraud store and on Amazon. Here’s the book’s take-home message: Senior sociopaths engage in antisocial behavior and abuse until they die. I wrote the book because I married a con man, James Alwyn Montgomery of Australia. He […]Read More
Is Your Person a Narcissist (or are You Crazy)?
If a tornado snapped all the trees in the woods but no one saw it, guess what? It still happened. You’re not crazy. Like a tornado passing in the night, you don’t always see narcissistic abuse while it’s happening. What you CAN see, once it’s gone and the light dawns, is the trail of destruction: […]Read More
DARVO: Abusers’ “Victim-Blaming” Tactic
Abusers are long known for victim-blaming, because they never want to take responsibility. More recently a research psychologist Jennifer Joy Freyd gave this a name: DARVO, which stands for Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. This is more than either “playing the victim” or victim-blaming, which we’re all capable of when conversations are misunderstood or not heard or remembered. Examples […]Read More