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Tips for Divorcing a Narcissist with Author Bill Eddy

6 of Bill Eddy’s favorite Tips for Divorcing a Narcissist Today I had the pleasure of interviewing Bill Eddy the author of many books but my favorite is Splitting. Bill was a lawyer and a clinical social worker and the founder of the High Conflict Institute. What I love about this interview is the way […]

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Meeting Your Needs is the Key to Happiness

Thank you Darlene Lancer for providing this wonderful article for our website! Her website can be found here: whatiscodependency.com   The key to happiness is meeting our needs. Although codependents are very good at meeting needs of other people, many are clueless about their own needs. They have problems identifying, expressing, and fulfilling their needs and […]

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How to Leave a Narcissist or Abuser

Thank you, Darlene Lancer, for providing this wonderful article for our website! Her website can be found here: whatiscodependency.com When we fall in love, it’s natural to become attached and form a romantic bond. But once in love with a narcissist, it’s not easy to leave, despite the abuse. Although you’re unhappy, you may be ambivalent […]

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Can a Narcissist Love?

Thank you Darlene Lancer for providing this wonderful article for our website! Her website can be found here: whatiscodependency.com Anyone who’s loved a narcissist wonders, “Does he really love me?” “Does she appreciate me?” They’re torn between their love and their pain, between staying and leaving, but can’t seem to do either. It’s confusing, because sometimes […]

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