After you discover that your beloved is a narcissist you must go grey rock. Grey rock is a term for no contact. You need to protect yourself because narcissist are very dangerous especially after they find out you know the truth. They will stop at nothing to hurt, smear, ruin your life. Go no contact […]
When we break up with a narcissist we are hurt, sad, confused and most likely wondering what just happened. The urge to not break that connection on social media with your X is so tempting isn’t it. Well it’s really important to go grey rock and totally disconnect from all social media and here is […]
A sample of mirroring with a narcissist is when they use information that is something you shared with them against you. They also become something you are looking for, wearing clothes, growing a beard, or acting as they learn you are looking for. Narcissist red flag of mirroring is yet another trick that they use […]
Red flag of a narcissist.Narcissists can be very charming and people generally like them. This creates a false persona that the victim of Narcissist abuse gets hooked by. We want our friends, or girlfriends or boyfriends to be charming and there is nothing wrong with someone being charming. But a narcissist is only pretending to […]
The statistics of abuse are quite shocking to hear, yet for an abused person like myself after the horror of hearing these numbers, I found a moment of peace that I am not alone. That I am not crazy and that what I endured was without doubt domestic abuse. WHY DID THE VICTIM STAY? A […]
Red flag of a narcissist | Something is not Right when you are dealing with a narcissist be it a husband or wife, mother, father, sister, brother or even your own child. Very often there are things that don’t quite add up, don’t make sense, and in your gut you just have questions. What this […]
Narcissist red flag – Rushing intimacy – if it’s too fast if you even question for one minute. It probably is? Be careful. A narcissist has three stages to the cycle they take with their victims. That feeling of being swept off your feet at first is an act, the narcissist is rushing things to […]
The last thirty days I have learned more about myself then I have learned in 55 years. I have learned new terms, a new language and YouTube has been here to teach me. I feel like I have gotten a lifetime of knowledge by watching and listening to real people’s stories. I learned what a […]
read this if you are just learning what a narcissist is The study of human nature may be thought of as an art with many tools at its disposal, an art closely related to all the other arts, and relevant to them all. In literature and poetry, particularly, this is especially significant. Its primary aim […]
Since recently discovering that what I have endured for over 54 years of my life is referred to as narcissistic abuse, I have tried to find a song that relates to my experience. As you can suspect, there are not many songs because words are unable to fully describe exactly how a victim or survivor […]