You were targeted by an abuser for a few reasons
1) You are kind and loving and have good values
2) They have tested your boundaries and they can see an opportunity to get their needs met easily
3) You are controllable, and you have something they need (supply)
STOP ATTRACTING NARCISSISTIC PEOPLE
Having weak boundaries makes you great narc-bait. The key to learning boundaries is learning how to identify when you need to set a boundary, how to communicate a boundary and must find ways to be stronger so narcissists don’t continue to abuse you.
THE REASONS WHY WE MUST LEARN BETTER BOUNDARIES
- Boundaries set limits with those that might abuse you and it becomes easier to identify people trying to push your boundaries
- Protect yourself & your assets, like your heart, your time, and your mental health
- Empower yourself to set and communicate the rules to play in your life
- Relieve anxiety, confusion, depression and pain when everyone knows the rules more peace comes
- Create a more peaceful life with less anger and resentment. Find the things you enjoy that make you happy and bring you joy to your mind and spirit
- And you will experience more compassion for yourself because that inner child is finally happy you are loving yourself
You get four video sessions, seven worksheets and a lifetime of empowerment