Addicted to a Narcissist

Addicted to a Narcissist by Rev. Sheri Heller, LCSW Frequently I encounter folks who are emotionally and psychologically devastated by the wreckage of romantic involvement with a malignant narcissist. These women and men are intelligent, attractive and empathic. Yet they cannot extricate themselves from insidious dynamics of abuse and violence. They are addicted. B.F. Skinner’s […]

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What to Know Before Filing for Divorce from a Narcissist

Divorcing a person with narcissism or narcissistic traits often poses a unique set of circumstances that can make divorce more difficult. This can include but is not limited to: inflated sense of self, tremendous need to control the situation, often need to be right on everything, manipulate the people around them, lack the ability to […]

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Protect Yourself from the Revenge of a Narcissist

Today I’d like to touch on a topic that is obviously very close to my heart and that is to how to protect yourself when your narcissist has decided that they want revenge on you, and there are so many people that I talk to that are being stalked or have had issues where their […]

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Narcissist Discard Phase: Revenge or Peace?

Tonight, I’m going to talk about the final stage of a narcissist. The final stage is when they discard you and they get rid of you. And so tonight I was looking and trying to really understand why everyone’s story of the discard is so strong and so full of horror and shock. Everyone seems […]

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Narcissist cover up

When a narcissist drops his mask and we learn the truth they lash out at the victim in a way that is unbelievable and extreme. Suddenly the life you thought was real becomes a nightmare. A narcissist will do anything to protect their lies. What most victims don’t get is closure because they don’t understand […]

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Breaking up with a Narcissist

Narcissists are so dangerous because they lack empathy, have a limited capacity for unconditional love. Sadly, their hearts either haven’t developed or have been shut down due to early psychic trauma, such as being raised by narcissistic parents, a crippling handicap both emotionally and spiritually. Hard as it may be to neither comprehend, these people […]

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How to Get Revenge on a Narcissist

So you’ve been involved in a relationship with a narcissist — sorry. The first step to take is to get yourself educated on what just happened and how you can help yourself heal. During this process, you will probably feel a desire for revenge: it’s human and perfectly normal when you’ve been hurt in such a grand […]

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