A Story About Anybody

A Story About Anybody By: @Korby4Health A person named Anybody had wandered off the path and was lost. They fell into a hole whose floor was like quicksand and they started to slowly sink down. They did nothing for a long time, even though they knew there were other people walking around the hole that seemed […]

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Love the One You’re With

The more I work with survivors of sexual abuse, the more I am aware of one of the greatest hopes we have: That our hurts will not have been in vain, that there is some way to make it matter. I know we often look to volunteering with organizations, offering our time and energy to […]

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New Narcissist Abuse Quotes

Some nights I sit in front of the TV and these quotes come into my mind. I love making quotes and I hope that these help you understand a little piece of this horror we call Narcissistic Abuse.

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Denying or accepting Narcissism?

“Narcissism will Never Happen to Me” 1. To cover our fear of people and our dread of isolation we tragically become the very authority figures who frighten others and cause them to withdraw. 2. To avoid becoming enmeshed and entangled with other people and losing ourselves in the process, we become rigidly self-sufficient. We disdain […]

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WHEN AM I GOING TO STOP BEING ANGRY?

After being in a relationship with a sociopath, clients are often conflicted by the idea of forgiveness as recommended by their faith system (I checked and all the world’s major religions admonish to forgive) as opposed to the perpetual anger they feel.  As therapists we never pressure someone who has been abused to forgive their […]

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Sheryl Sandberg Commencement Speech

Thank you, Marie. And thank you esteemed members of the faculty, proud parents, devoted friends, squirming siblings. Congratulations to all of you but especially congratulations to the magnificent Berkeley class of 2016! It is a privilege to be here at Berkeley, which has produced so many Nobel Prize winners, Turing Award winners, Astronauts, members of […]

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Dear Next Supply

Hi there, this is Tracy and today I would like to talk about not hating the next supply. What I’m finding is that victims of Narcissist abuse very often will blame the new supply for coming into the life of your narcissist and disrupting things destructing the patterns of what you thought was real and […]

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Stop the Insanity of Emotional Abuse

Narcissists are like gum on the bottom of your shoe… it just won’t go away. They fight just to piss you off. Do you want it to stop, yes. Will they…. no. Why do they do it… because it works! Threatening you is easy if they see you struggling with it, for them it’s a […]

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Courage Lives in the Valley of Oppression

Oppression. What do we do with it? Do we decide to accept it as insurmountable? Do we acknowledge it, and work our way out of its valley? Many of us find ourselves in this space. When we are oppressed, silenced, corrected, overridden, made invisible many of us find it is so much easier to let […]

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Emotions felt by Narcissist Supply Victims

This is a script for a wonderful poem written by Dana from http://www.thriveafterabuse.com/ her YouTube Channel should be your first stop to understand what the red flags of a narcissist, Thank you Dana! Top 10 Emotions “Targets of Abuse Narcissistic Abuse” often feel Emotions felt by Narcissist Supply Victims CONFUSED… because The relationship moved really […]

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