When discussing abusive dynamics, we often focus on visible behaviors like emotional abuse, manipulation, or isolation. However, narcissism—rooted in self-centeredness, lack of empathy, and an insatiable need for control—adds an even more insidious layer to these already harmful patterns. Whether in sex addiction, porn addiction, estrangement, coercive control, or alienation, narcissism exacerbates these issues, making […]
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Narcissists are masters of manipulation, using various tactics to gain control over their victims. The subtlety of their strategies can often make it difficult to recognize the abuse until you’re deeply entangled. Understanding these tactics is the first step in breaking free from their control. Here are 20 common ways a narcissist may control you: […]
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Narcissists often seem to move on quickly from relationships because of several key psychological traits and behaviors that define their personality. Let’s talk about why this happens: Lack of Emotional Depth Narcissists typically have shallow emotional connections with others. While they may appear deeply invested in a relationship, their attachment is often more about what […]
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Narcissists often use passive-aggressive behaviors to manipulate, control, and undermine their victims. This covert form of aggression allows them to maintain an appearance of innocence while causing emotional harm. Here’s how narcissists commonly employ passive-aggressive tactics: 1. Silent Treatment Narcissists use the silent treatment to punish and manipulate their victims. This leaves the victim feeling […]
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Cults are being seen in recent news more often with reports highlighting controversial leaders and their followers who adhere to unconventional beliefs or practices. These groups can draw scrutiny due to allegations of psychological manipulation, financial exploitation, or abuse within closed-off communities. Media coverage typically focuses on the impact on members and broader societal implications, […]
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A lack of empathy is not sufficient for a diagnosis of narcissism but it underlies several narcissistic traits, such as arrogance, entitlement, and being exploitative. On the other hand, a lack of empathy can be associated with borderline personality disorder, autism, bipolar disorder, and sociopathy, as well as more benign problems, such as low emotional intelligence, […]
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Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation that seeks to make a person doubt their perceptions, memories, or sanity. In the context of divorce, gaslighting is often employed by one spouse to gain control, manipulate the narrative, and potentially influence legal proceedings. Some ways gaslighting may be used in divorce: Denying Reality: Gaslighters deny events […]
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Dating is tricky. It always has been but now that we know what we know about narcissists, it adds a new layer of concern into the mix that may have never been there before. In the past, we may have hoped for a “nice” or “cute” one but now we look for one who won’t […]
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October is a month when the world turns its collective attention to a pressing and often hidden issue that affects countless lives: domestic violence. Designated as Domestic Violence Awareness Month, October serves as a solemn reminder of the urgent need to address and combat the pervasive problem of abuse within intimate relationships. During this month, […]
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Betrayal in a relationship refers to the breaking of trust, faith, or loyalty that one partner has placed in the other. It occurs when someone intentionally deceives, lies, or goes against the agreed-upon values, commitments, or expectations within the relationship. Betrayal can take various forms and can deeply hurt the betrayed person, leading to emotional […]
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