When Do We Get to be the Heroes?

Thank you Alisa Stamps for wonderful article! I’m finding something interesting in this time of the pandemic that I’m noticing is similar to other times of crisis. We need heroes. We NEED good people that we can look up to so that maybe we don’t see as much of the bad. We—as Mr. Rogers once […]

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How to Divorce a Narcissist and Win

By Rebecca Zung, Esq. Are you divorcing a narcissist and afraid you’re not going to win? I hate to say it but….you should be. Why? Because dirty tricks, scamming, lying, pressuring, and even stalking and manipulating are not beneath them. But, there are ways to actually beat them at their own game.  So before we […]

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How to Detach and Let Go with Love

Although it’s painful to see our loved ones be self-destructive, detaching allows us to enjoy our life despite another person’s problems and behavior. Attachment and caring are normal. It’s healthy to get attached to someone we love and care about, but codependent attachment causes us pain and problems in relationships. We become overly attached—not because […]

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My Repetitious Compulsive Quest for Love from Narcissistic Men

Discovering his engagement on her blog was my bottom, but it wasn’t the end. Naturally, I kept returning to those idyllic black and white portraits of them in nature laughing, kissing, prancing. She was beautiful. A photographer. I suspected she didn’t know about me. That would change. Sadly, this woman who he eventually married did […]

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My Response to Coronavirus – Art Ginley

Thank you Art Ginley for submitting a great article to our website! Part 1: This is really happening. It’s been setting in for me over the past few days and weeks that something really big is happening that is totally out of control. We have started a collective journey, against our choice, and now we’re […]

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Why Victims of Narcissistic Abuse develop PTSD

Big thank you to Rev. Sheri Heller for another wonderful article! When we met for an initial therapy consultation, Madelyn was a psychological and emotional wreck. Yet when she shared about her childhood in the Philippines and her subsequent exploits with travel and academia, it was clear that her life was filled with love and […]

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The Virtuous Narcissist

Thank you to Rev. Sherri Heller for submitting another wonderful article! Amara touted herself as a spiritual healer versed in sundry esoteric techniques such as holographic resonance and cathartic release work. She seemed wise and encouraging. It took me years to see the back-stabbing egomaniac that lurked beneath her mystical new age facade. By the […]

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Our Partner Can Control Our Brain 

A new study sheds light on how other people influence our mind. Research on mice, whose brains are remarkably similar to humans, reveals that our brains are affected by those around us. The key factor is dominance. The brain of the subordinate mouse synchronized to the dominant mouse. This likely applies to our relationships. Typically, […]

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7 Indications That You Were Raised By Narcissists

Another great article, provided by Ellie Coverdale. Thank you! Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a personality disorder whereby a person has an inflated sense of self-worth and they crave the praise and the approval of those around them. Their relationships are superficial and focused on how other people can affect them and they tend not to […]

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