To a narcissist, divorce is a game of psychological warfare.

To a narcissist, divorce is a game of psychological warfare. To win, history must be rewritten, making them into both the victim and the hero. Conspiracies against you will escalate into false allegations and accusations that include everything they themselves have been doing all along. These claims will generate confusion because they will seem to be an alternate reality relative to what your life together was really like. Divorce literally undoes everything you thought to be true.*

If this is your journey, I can help!

(*Introduction to my book – Divorcing Your Narcissist: You Can’t Make This Shit Up!)

Are You Grappling with the Divorce Decision?

Feeling betrayed and uncertain…

Feeling frustrated and hurt…

Feeling the heartbreak of infidelity…

Feeling overwhelmed and unsupported…

Feeling helpless and worried…

Let's Take Control and Reclaim Your Power

Summon the strength and resilience you need to stay away from your narcissist.

Select an attorney or mediator who understands the complexities of dealing with a narcissist.

Navigate the intricate paperwork and legal procedures involved in divorce.

Create effective strategies for communicating during the divorce.

Understand your rights and entitlements for a fair settlement.

Gather compelling evidence to demonstrate the narcissistic behaviors to the court.

Deflect manipulative attacks, falsehoods, and defamation from the narcissist.

Get emotional support as you brace yourself for the challenges of court.

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I Am Your Guide

I am Tracy A. Malone, an international narcissistic abuse divorce coach. As the author of a best-selling book on divorcing your narcissist, I know how to guide you. I understand your fears and concerns as well as the tactics and strategies narcissists generally use and how to counter punch.

I’ll help you find the strength and emotional resilience to overcome this tough time.

I can help you choose a skilled attorney familiar with navigating narcissistic dynamics.

You’ll have a partner to help you navigate the complex paperwork and legal processes.

You’ll discover how to manage negative divorce communication without being triggered and develop effective strategies for communication.

I’ll save you money as I educate you about your rights, guaranteeing you are fighting for a fair and just settlement.

Knowing which compelling evidence is crucial for the courts to recognize and emphasize narcissistic behavior.

I’ll provide you with strategies to deflect manipulative attacks, false accusations, and character assassinations from the narcissist.

You’ll receive emotional support, tools, and guidance to help you prepare for the challenges and uncertainties of divorce.

Gratitude Praise

"During my divorce, I felt like I was falling apart. It was like my ex was trying to tear me down completely. I felt so lost and alone, with no one to turn to for understanding. But then, I found you, and your wisdom and guidance became my lifeline. You saved me so much money by being my person vs overusing the lawyer.  You're a true blessing in my life, a gift from above. Your wisdom and compassion will always stay with me. Thank you for everything. ~ surTHRIVER ~"
"After over 20 years of marriage, I never thought I'd have to face these challenges. My lawyer didn't grasp the situation, and my friends' advice didn't quite fit. Tracy, you changed everything for me. You empowered me with knowledge about my rights and what I deserved. Learning to control my emotions gave me the strength to stand my ground. Now, I feel like a worthy opponent. Thank you for changing my life. ~ surTHRIVER ~"

Surthriver Divorce Membership Package

Divorcing a narcissist can feel like an overwhelming challenge, perhaps the toughest you’ve ever faced. The uncertainties ahead can leave you feeling lost and in need of guidance. Many find themselves isolated and helpless as the narcissist undermines their support system entirely.

My goal is to empower you with the strength and clarity needed to navigate this divorce journey with grace and maximum protection. I’ll be your virtual companion, holding your hand every step of the way.

You don’t have to do this alone, together, we’ll tackle this process as partners.

What is included:

3-50-minute Monthly One-On-One Coaching sessions (value $1110)

60-minute Monthly Saturday Morning Group Coaching Zoom Call (2 months access)  (value $370)

Learn How to Set Better Boundaries Course  (value $99)

Learn The Magic Of Reframing And The Danger Of Your Story – “Change The Story” Course (value $99)

Learn How to Prepare To Get Away: Our Leaving Plan (value $99)

Divorcing Your Narcissist: You Can’t Make This Shit Up! 300-page book – Electronic Version  (value $20)

Choosing the Right Lawyer: Essential Questions eBook (value $500)

Safeguard Against Post-Divorce Financial Abuse with My ‘What If They Don’t’ Clause” (value $1000)

Package Value $ 3297

Your Cost $597 per month

(2-month Membership commitment $1,194 – Payment plan available)

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Standalone small coaching packages are also available.