Memes for sharing! Only give your all to someone that gives you their all. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com There is life after narcissistic abuse, hold on. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com When wounded or cornered or caught, expect narcissists to lash out and become pure evil. The person you though you knew was just an act. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Life will always deliver problems, thankfully, there is always a solution to every problem. Your job is to solve the problem, absorb the lesson and move on. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com When did my life go from a hallmark movie to a lifetime movie? -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Because you are so nice, beautiful and you have no boundaries, you are narc-bait. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com She used all of her skills to charm me. I now know this was narcissistic charm and just a tactic of abuse. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Most say setting boundaries with a narcissist rarely works. I suggest that the act of trying to set a boundary (despite its most likely results) is far better than never trying at all. For when you surrender and stop trying to set boundaries they get their way and they win. Never stop fighting for your rights. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com In order to move on we must take a step in a new direction and let yesterday be yesterday. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com The fears we don't face become out limits. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com The fears we don't face become out limits. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Only give your all to someone that gives you their all. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Narcissists are lower than bullies, maybe pond scum! Lower...the fungus that feeds on the pond scum. Bullying is slow painful brain fuckery. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com It's not the future you are afraid of. It's the fear of repeating the past that haunts you. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com You will learn to identify narcissists more quickly with each bullet you dodge. They are just tests, get out your narc repellent and be strong. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com You have the right to set a boundary about anything you want. Define it, announce it, honor it. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com When you are with a narcissist the charm you saw only comes out when they need something. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com The worst sadness is when you find out your life was a lie. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com You must learn to identify behaviors, see abusive patterns and know your own vulnerabilities. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Keep dreaming - When you have a dream, set goals on how to get there, when you work hard for your dreams it makes them that much better when they come true. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Once you are no longer a source of supply a narcissist will discard you cruelly with horrifically unimaginable devastation. This is when they show the 'No Empathy' part. They do not care about you and learning that puts victims into a tailspin of confusion and depression. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Don't be afraid of death, that fear doesn't stop death, it just stops life. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Take back a minute at a time. You can't get yesterday back, but you can claim tomorrow. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com The truth is a narcissist's greatest fear. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com When you struggle with fear and trust issues, be aware that you may not trust yourself. You are the first person you must learn to trust. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Every tear is washing away an old memory that hurts. It's ok, this is how we let go. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Narcissists play a public game and a private game which makes it harder to understand. Expressing your concerns suddenly turns you into the "jealous one" and they make you doubt yourself. He/she becomes cold and uncaring almost overnight, this is when the "mask falls" and you see the real person. They make excuses and if we don't accept these excuses then you are the "crazy" one. They are managing down your expectations from constant contact to crickets, this verbally and emotional abuse hurts. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com You may feel scared when starting again. Pull out your bravery and blaze a new life. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Congratulations! You have just danced with the devil and lived. No education, no training could have prepared you for what happened. Yet you survived. Be proud and live well, you earned it. -Tracy A Malone, NarcissistAbuseSupport.com