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MAGIC Words: How To Get What You Want From a Narcissist

Lindsey Ellison

BIFF: Quick Responses to High-Conflict People, Their Personal Attacks, Hostile Email and Social Media Meltdowns

Bill Eddy

BIFF for CoParent Communication: Your Guide to Difficult Texts, Emails, and Social Media Posts

Bill Eddy

Co-parenting with a Toxic Ex: What to Do Ex-Spouse Turns the Kids Against You

Amy J. L. Baker

The Co-Parenting Survival Guide: Letting Go of Conflict After a Difficult Divorce

Elizabeth Thayer Ph.D & Jeffrey Zimmerman Ph.D

The High-Conflict Co-Parenting Survival Guide: Reclaim Your Life One Week At A Time

Megan Hunter & Andrea LaRochelle

BIFF for CoParent Communication: Your Guide to Difficult Texts, Emails, and Social Media Posts

Bill Eddy

Mothers on Trial: The Battle for Children and Custody

Phyllis Chesler

DIVORCING YOUR NARCISSIST: You Can’t Make This Shit Up!

Tracy A Malone

Parenting Plans for Families After Divorce

Joan H. Mcwilliams, Esq.

A Parent’s Guide to Understanding the Effects of Conflict and Divorce

Joan H. McWilliams

Divorce in Alabama: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Jessica Kirk Drennan

Divorce in Arizona: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Marlene A Pontrelli & Robert L Schwartz

Divorce in California: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Debra Schoenberg & Jennifer Knops

Divorce in Connecticut: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Reneé C. Bauer

Divorce in Florida: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Shayna K Cavanaugh & Lisa P Kirby

Divorce in Georgia: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Richard A Sanders & Douglas G. Andrews

Divorce in Idaho: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Craig B Marcus

Divorce in Illinois: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What To Expect

Steven N. Peskind

Divorce in Louisiana: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Betsy A. Fischer

Divorce in Maine: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Dana E. Prescott & Neil D. Jamieson

Divorce in Maryland: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Marjorie G DiLima & Dorothy R. Fait

Divorce in Michigan: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

John F. Schaefer

Divorce in Mississippi: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Connie M. Smith & Jon H. Powell

Guide to Divorce in Missouri: Simple Answers to Complex Questions

Cary J. Mogerman & Joseph J Kodner

Divorce in Nebraska: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Susan Ann Koenig

Divorce in Nevada: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Marshal S Willick

Divorce in New Mexico: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Sandra Morgan Little, Jan Gilman-Tepper, Roberta S. Batley & Tiffany Oliver Leigh

Divorce in New York: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Michael Stutman

Divorce in North Carolina: Answers to Your Legal Questions

Eric C Trosch & William C Trosch

Divorce in Oklahoma: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Mark Antinoro

Divorce in Pennsylvania: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Karen Ulmer Pendergast

Divorce in Tennessee: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Eric J. Burch

Divorce in Texas: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Jim Mueller

Divorce in Virginia: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Steven L. Raynor

Divorce in Washington: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

David J. Crouse

Divorce in West Virginia: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Lyne Ranson & Brittany Ranson Stonestreet

Divorce in Wisconsin: The Legal Process, Your Rights, and What to Expect

Linda S. Vanden Heuvel

Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

Dr. Karyl McBride Ph.D.

Toxic In-Laws: Loving Strategies for Protecting Your Marriage

Susan Forward, PH. D.

The Manipulative Child: How to Regain Control and Raise Resilient, Resourceful, and Independent Kids

Ernest W. Swihart Jr.

Narcissistic Fathers: The Problem with being the Son or Daughter of a Narcissistic Parent, and how to fix it. A Guide for Healing and Recovering After Hidden Abuse

Dr. Theresa J. Covert

Raising Resilient Children with a Borderline or Narcissistic Parent

Margalis Fjelstad

Your Defiant Child: Eight Steps to Better Behavior

Russell A. Barkley PhD

The Journey from Abandonment to Healing: Surviving Through and Recovering

Susan Anderson

Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty… And Start Speaking Up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, And Unapologetically Being Yourself

Dr Aziz Gazipura

Radical Forgiveness

Colin Tipping

Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving: A Guide and Map for Recovering from Childhood Trauma

Pete Walker

Feel the Fear . . . and Do It Anyway

Susan Jeffers

Feelings Buried Alive Never Die

Karol K. Truman

You’re Not Crazy – You’re Codependent.: What Everyone Affected by Abuse, Trauma Must know

Jeanette Elisabeth Menter

Taming Your Outer Child: Overcoming Self-Sabotage and Healing from Abandonment

Susan Anderson

Whole Again: Healing Your Heart and Rediscovering Your True Self After Toxic Relationships and Emotional Abuse

Jackson MacKenzie

Soul Vampires: Reclaiming Your Lifeblood After Narcissistic Abuse

Andrea Schneider

You’re Still That Girl: Get Over Your Abusive Ex for Good!

Suzanna Quintana

Healing From a Narcissistic Relationship

Margalis Fjelstad

How To Do No Contact Like A Boss!: The Essential Guide to Detaching from Love That Hurts

Kim Saeed

The Road Back to Me: Healing and Recovering From Co-dependency, Addiction, Enabling, and Low Self Esteem

Lisa A Romano

Backbone Power: The Science of Saying No

Anne Brown PHD

The Power of Vulnerability: Teachings of Authenticity, Connection, and Courage

Brené Brown

The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You’re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are

Brené Brown

Thriving Through Uncertainty: Moving Beyond Fear of the Unknown and Making Change Work for You

Tama Kieves

Why Can’t I Just Leave: A Guide to Waking Up and Walking Out of a Pathological Love Relationship

Kristen Milstead Ph.D.

How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved

Sandra L. Brown

Option B: Facing Adversity, Building Resilience, and Finding Joy

Sheryl Sandberg

LIVE Beyond your Dreams: From Fear and Doubt to Personal Power, Purpose and Success

Riana Milne

Disarming the Narcissist: Surviving and Thriving with the Self-Absorbed

Wendy T. Behary MSW LCSW

“Don’t You Know Who I Am?”: How to Stay Sane in an Era of Narcissism, Entitlement, and Incivility

Ramani S. Durvasula Ph.D

Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself

Shahida Arabi

Rethinking Narcissism: The Secret to Recognizing and Coping with Narcissists

Dr. Craig Malkin

The Narcissist in Your Life: Recognizing the Patterns and Learning to Break Free

Julie L. Hall

The Covert Passive-Aggressive Narcissist

Debbie Mirza

The Wise Lesbian Guide to Getting Free From Crazy-Making Relationships & Getting on with Your Life

Amber Ault

Psychopath Free

Jackson MacKenzie

The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists: Coping with the One-Way Relationship in Work, Love, and Family

Eleanor Payson

The Gaslighting Recovery Workbook: Healing From Emotional Abuse

Amy Marlow-MaCoy LPC

The Gaslighting Recovery Journal: Prompts and Practices for Healing from Emotional Abuse

Alisa Stamps LCSW

The Abandonment Recovery Workbook: Guidance through the Five Stages of Healing from Abandonment

Susan Anderson

The Inner Child Workbook

Cathryn Taylor

The Self Esteem Workbork

Glenn R. Schiraldi

The Relationship Skills Workbook: A Do-It-Yourself Guide to a Thriving Relationship

Julia B. Colwell

Healing the Trauma of Abuse: A Women’s Workbook

Mary Ellen Copeland

Lemonade Life: A Journal About Managing Life’s Lemons

Tina Swithin

The Better Boundaries Workbook: A CBT-Based Program to Help You Set Limits, Express Your Needs, and Create Healthy Relationships

Sharon Martin

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