This is a step in my journey to heal myself, my heart, my soul from narcissist abuse. Tonight I declare that I forgive myself, I release all feelings that I must have done something. Forgiveness never EVER EVER should happen with your narcissist, go grey rock and keep yourself safe. Many of us ‘surviver/victims are deep caring, loving people that have gone WAY beyond caring for these aliens. Yet we tend to blame ourselves for not knowing, for being so stupid to be conned in LOVE, and so many self fulfilling guilts.

I hope that this message stays in your heart and when you are ready you will be able to forgive yourself. You are great and loving and I want you to turn that love on yourself and hug your best friend… You