Narcissist | Charming Red Flag

Red flag of a narcissist.Narcissists can be very charming and people generally like them. This creates a false persona that the victim of Narcissist abuse gets hooked by. We want our friends, or girlfriends or boyfriends to be charming and there is nothing wrong with someone being charming. But a narcissist is only pretending to be charming, this is an ACT!
What you have to be alerted to is an inconsistent behavior that really isn’t charming.

Is your narcissist charming in public, maybe they are fake charming, maybe they leave the party and act differently at home. These are the flags to look for “if the person is different after they are alone with you”.Red flag of a narcissist.


I’m a survivor of Narcissistic abuse and my goal with this channel is to educate other “victims” as they transition to becoming a “survivor”. I believe that education is our best way to heal, and the best way to not become a victim or supply to another narcissist. These videos are a healing part of my personal journey and while no animals were hurt in the making of these videos these are representations of the two relationships I have had and discovering after 55 years that my mother was a narcissist.

Please note: I am not a therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist or coach so use this information as my own personal journey of healing and the information that has been shared with me by friends, other YouTubers, groups and community. This video is not intended to treat or diagnose any condition, if you believe you or a loved one is suffering from narcissistic abuse please use seek any help from your community. Check out for some resources available to you.

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