Narcissist Abuse Lessons When you go through a narcissistic relationship hopefully you learn some lessons so that you don’t need to repeat them. Here are some ideas of lessons our readers have learned. Feel free to share on social media Covert Narcissist: We never expected a beast behind the mask. - Tracy A Malone Understand if a narcissist did something once, they will do it again. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Betrayal changes people, you doubt yourself, you cannot trust, and a little piece of you will never be the same. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com The easiest red flag to remember, Do not loan them money, do no gift them money, stop believing the victim story, do not give them access to your money. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Sometimes the most real things in the world are what we can't see. - TracyAMalone I am deep enough to know how shallow I am. If you are looking for someone to talk to to get validated - let me help Watch the behavior in public, are they charming? Does that mask fall when they are home? - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Never let someone call you names again. Always listen to your intuition. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com If you haven't read 10 books on your recovery path, you are risking another narcissist injury. Fully healing makes you stronger narc repellent. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com You could have abandonment injuries, fear and trust issues. Boundary issues or people pleasing or codependent patterns. Educate! - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com If someone ghosts you once they will continue ghosting you. They ghost for many reasons, to train you, to live different lives, to drive you crazy. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Yesterday they stole your passions. Today you take them back. You do not need permission to live, just do it! - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Yesterday they stole your passions, don't let them win, set forth to find your joy again. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com People with mental disorders don't look evil, they look beautiful, they appear charming and good hearted. Don't be fooled this is just an act. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com You can not change them. No they cannot be cured. No they did not love you because they can only love themselves. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com Narcissistic Abuse: Were you sickly when you were with the narcissist? Did you know emotions held in make us sick? - Tracy A Malone Learn Boundaries to protect yourself from another narcissist. - Tracy A Malone - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com