Do you believe in the love fairy tale? The happily ever after dream so many us believe in hasn’t worked out so well for me yet. I do believe in the dream and the mouse. My narcissist played the role of Prince Charming and I believe he played me for that dream. Listen how.
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Hi there. This is Chase. II just I don’t want to ask you a question
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Do you believe in Fairy tales?
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like the happily-ever-after stuff I
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know I did I
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Know I always believed in
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the prince coming in and swooping down and
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Caring for you for the rest of your life, right I?
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Think somewhere around the time that I met my ex-husband
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for one I’d only been to disney once before that twice and
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Once I met him he was coming off as the prince in shining armor
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and he was really really really working this and
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He got me to believe him
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she’s family did live in a castle and he would call himself prince charming and
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she
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was in to save the day and
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Then he started having me for giving me
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An opportunity to go see Disney. He moved to me 2,000 miles away from my family and my friends, so
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sometimes twice a year he would just say
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Why don’t you come down [and] see your friends?
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And you would pay for us to all go into Disney world
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He would come once a year with all a group of us
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We would all go for like the wine and she used tasting bing. So he would go, but he hated it. He hated Disney
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He hated crowds he hated
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Line, she hated rides. She hated the food at them because it wasn’t sophisticated enough
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And now I’m realizing that
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The reason that you offered me to go there and be there with my [friends] you could say hey, why don’t you guys go?
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Too late you know K soon
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he was pushing that to put in my mind a
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fairy Tale that I thought I was living and if I
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Went too far away from that fairy tale, but I thought I was living then he would suck me back in
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by offering me the trick and you know oh, you should see your friends you need to see your friends and
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so my question is to
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Survivors
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Do you believe [in] Fairy tales, and I’m wondering if that is one of our vulnerabilities?
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I’m sure you don’t have to believe in
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Mickey Mouse
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but in the greater love
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Watching romantic flicks on TV, or the Hallmark Channel
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well that
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I have a survey let me know if you believe in Fairy tales
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Tell me any story you got that you’re narcissus did or didn’t do with the fairy tale
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All I got this is JC. I’m a good night
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