Hi! My Name is Tracy A. Malone, founder of Narcissist Abuse Support and I’m here to help! 🙂
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Hi, this is Tracy
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And I would like to take this opportunity to apologize to you
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I’ve been learning so much since I last saw you and
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They’ve been on a journey of self development and discovery and I’ve learned what a codependent is and all of its characteristics
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Guess what I have them all
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I’ve also learned what a nurse this is and guess what?
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you
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You have all those characteristics
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Does this sound like me loving kind generous genuine? I was so unaware about myself
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But you saw it didn’t you?
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I’m sorry. I let that’s what the truth is out. I
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Guess I wasn’t my real self with you because it wasn’t until I hit bottom
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There near Grand finale I learned
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That things that happen in my childhood that actually change my perspective on having a relationship with you
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if I had only known
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You could have been on to your next supply sooner
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if I had only known
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this about myself
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We would have never been together and this new me would never tolerate abuse again
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and you would never have liked the new me I
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Wouldn’t have been listening to your lives. I’m bad acting anymore
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I’m sorry. I didn’t know what a narcissist was
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if I had only had time to search the internet
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endlessly all night long and becoming a detective before
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You broke my heart
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I’ve been selfishly
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Taken that time away from being at your beck and call
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I
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might have learned
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But then I wouldn’t have been your supply for so long
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I’m sorry that I wanted to love you. I trust you
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Because of this path of mine is so needy like I want. I want I want
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By giving you this love and trust so easily that you never got to experience to learn how to love
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And now you’re an unloving and untrustworthy person
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I’m sorry that I’m a dreamer
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filling me I
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grew up in an error of
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The mouse from the Magic of Disney and I would be in Prince charming I
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Needed to love somebody no matter whether they loved me or not I believed in the prince
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the Fairy Tale and the happy ending
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My mistake was thinking that you deserve to even audition for Deverel I
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Had only been a person that lies and cheats
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And abuses with charm. We would have been a perfect match for one another
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I’m sorry that my praise and genuine love
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schooled you into thinking that you are special and
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I’m sorry that I saw you as a friend
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Now you’re think you’re worthy of my friendship
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In the end I set you up to fail
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Because you were nothing
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like a friend
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Sorry, I took all your power because I hear that as a narcissist supply. It’s my job to let you ruin me forever
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And I’m sorry. I didn’t comply with that requirement. I didn’t know all the world
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like whey did
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Trying to ruin me I give you more power. I get like a super power thing. I guess I should have understood that I
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didn’t mean to see your mask and
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But they all came off, and I started to see them. Maybe thought it would have been I
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Smarter and
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Being able to not put all the pieces together
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Maybe thought you could trick me forever. I’m sorry to let you down
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I’m trying let you stop dating me the long locks the night. We laid in bed and talked all night
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if I had only nattu
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then
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You would have been able to pretend that you cared that much longer
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And I’m sorry. I made you never deal with your own pain
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instead I called you and I let things slip by
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Maybe you wouldn’t be this far gone
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Maybe there would be hope for you and your soul, or your future if I had only nagged you
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I’m sorry that you’ll never see my wonderful son again. I’m really happy for him because if he had stayed near you any longer
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He would have been like you I
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Am sorry I cannot feel empathy for you because you cannot feel empathy or love
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I’m sorry you can be the man you pretended to be I thought he was kind of
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I’m sorry that the man was just an act. I think you forgot your lines your fake script
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You showed your true self
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Sorry, you weren’t brave enough to be a man?
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I’m sorry that you can protect me in the end from the most terrible betrayals
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I know that that active made it seem like you would
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I’m sorry that I would rather not see you ever again. I
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Didn’t think you would ever be a horrific human being?
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And I thought you were my friend my husband my boyfriend. I will never let this happen again
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Because your betrayal your brain fuck your attempt
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It didn’t work and finally I know the truth. Yes
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I am sorry that I’ve been forced to learn about domestic violence
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narcissist appease an
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emotional Neglect
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And yet, I owe you the biggest. Thanks for pushing me. Just one last time so that I find me sauce
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I’m sorry. I tried to be so perfect for you I
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Didn’t need to try so hard
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Give as much the right one will think I’m perfect with all my flaws I
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Am sorry to disappoint you
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I’m going to be just fine I
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Won’t give up I
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Won’t stop learning and I won’t ever forget and I’m sorry
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That I didn’t see that sooner
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