Emotional abuse, is not taken very seriously. If a police officer doesn’t see blood they think you are making it up. Courts do not know what to do or who’s side to believe so they ignore. My mission is to bring narcissistic abuse to the front lines, bring education to our children so they can protect themselves better then my generation.
I know there is much more power in numbers. At last count there are over 38 million narcissists diagnosed in the world. If each one of them only screwed up one person that is double that number.
I want to give a voice that together we can be heard.
It’s in sharing our stories bravely that we can heal others. If you would like to share any part of your story I would love to share it. email me info@narcissistabusesupport.com
If you can share a little piece of your narcissist abuse you could save one person.
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911 I’d like to report
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I’m not sure what I want to report
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I’ve been abused
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Yes, I know my perpetrator
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It’s someone I know someone I thought I loved
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What did they steal?
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They still time they stole my time
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I know that [sounds] [weird], but
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I have been manipulated and I would really like
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If an officer can come over and speak with me
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Could you do that? I’ve learned quite a bit about this and I’d really like to understand more I
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Am a victim and there are so many more like me
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How will the law help us aren’t you there to protect us?
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Yes, I understand. I’ll be here. Thank you
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I’d like to talk about today before the officer gets here
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Some information, they learned about crying
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Today my cancer badge on it. So I’m hat a little swollen eyes
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So I’m gonna go off camera for a minute, and I’m gonna read you some stuff that I have learned
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I’ll put some pretty pictures up here. So you’ll have something to look at and
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Let’s think about this. I’ve got a really good idea
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What is the most valuable asset that we all share? It’s the greatest equalizer of our time?
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It isn’t gold
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It isn’t [sauveur] and it is in diamonds
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It’s time
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Time is very limited, and we never know how much we have
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Doesn’t it seem like yesterday when you were just a child
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enjoying life and having fun
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There are time thief’s out there. I’d like to call them narcissists
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they’ve wasted our time and
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They’ve stolen from us
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I
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looked up some definitions and
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To steal is to take another person’s property without permission legal right or without intending to return it
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Robbery is taking money or goods in the possession of another
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From his or her person or iMmediate presence by Force or intimidation
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Robbery is a crime of theft and be classified as larceny
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the elements of a crime of Robert e ink you include the force of
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intimidation
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This is what narcissists do
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Forms of domestic violence include physical abuse includes hitting biting slapping battering shoving pushing punching
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sexual abuse occurs when the abuser
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Courses or attempts to Coerce the victim into having sexual contact or sexual behavior without the victims consent
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emotional abuse Involves invalidating deflating the victims sense of Self-worth and Self-esteem
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and
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economic abuse this takes place when the abuser tries to make the victim financially
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reliant on them and then with holes the money a
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con artist
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Seemed to be able to control everyone around them not only their victims and their flying monkeys a police
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Court systems judges law they will use anything to their advantage. They are
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Actors, and they will show people exactly how they can be
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These types of crime that we are describing here this verbal abuse this mental abuse
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This this violence that has been in our lives it is a white-collar crime in a way
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Because the police don’t seem to care about it
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Unless we’re Bernie madoff and we steal billions of dollars and hurt lots of people
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They don’t really have time or want to investigate a little narcissist
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If time is our most precious asset
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Then why when someone steals it from us under false pretense are they not accountable?
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It’s written in the law books
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This is accountable. Why won’t anyone listen
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in the [book] the confidence game why we fall for it every time it’s a book about con artists and
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the people that get con and
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Why it’s so easy, and why we are all victims
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The most important thing for the the con or the narcissist or the sociopath is that?
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People have to believe that they are an honest person
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they would not be able to get away with this without this facade of
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being kind and loving and and what we know as
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Acting they have created a false persona, so that we can trust that
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Once we trust them we become more vulnerable and they continue
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to attack
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It has taken centuries
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for equality to really be out there our
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Children are finally recognized at when they are abused we have protection in our system, though
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not perfect better than it was
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How do we as a society have the same rights as that little girl?
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And it’s we were that little girl and now we are being revitalized
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By a con artist who only wants to steal from us as they steal our time as they steal our life?
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Why won’t the police or anyone listen?
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How do we change that how do we create a movement?
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How do we help others I?
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Think in uniting ourselves and telling our stories. We will be stronger together
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Let’s make a change and make these
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freaking
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narcissists accountable
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As you can see there’s no police officer knocking on my door
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In fact if they really came they would probably think I was crazy
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Making things up or perhaps they thought that I was a jealous girlfriend, and I just didn’t know how to give up the person
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These are common things that happen to us victims when we deal with a narcissist
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And I do believe that we have to make a change
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We all need [to] speak up and get help
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This is Tracy Malone
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And I believe that in the volume of our stories and the education that we can offer future
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generations and
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police and judges and lawyers and
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advocacies all of us together
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standing
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will not be ignored if
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You would like [to] tell your story I
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am creating a website
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Please contact me, and I would love to share your story the more stories. We share and they could be
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Anonymous change the names or full credit the more stories. We share the more powerful we get
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They can’t pull the wool over our eyes
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Thank you. That’s all I got
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