Tonight as i looked down at my unpainted toes it sparked a smile that I don’t care. I was molded by my ex narc family that I had to dress and act a certain way. That included painted nails and ‘things’ that defined us as better than others. Life is different on my own, I don’t have the resources I had to live that life. so I learned how to adapt. In this video I pulled some examples of ‘things’ that I had that I don’t need anymore. life changes after narcissistic abuse and the things that matter also change. Your life may be different but you will be ok.