This week I have had quite a few name calling events in my world. I know that we are educating ourselves about narcissists, hear me out. I have seen some people in this healing community lash out at someone with a difference of opinion and we are quick to call them a narcissist. I get it on this channel and groups.
We know how terrible a true narcissist is, the soulless being that is incapable of love. So we must understand that in these communities people are healing at different paces. They could still be like a newborn, still wishing things could be as they were. Remember yourself at this stage and imagine someone called you a soulless being. It puts a tailspin into recovery that we ourselves will journey through.
Resist using that word and let’s save that one for the “truly demented beings” that they are. Let’s help each other heal.
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Hi There This is tracy Tonight want to Talk about something Bad
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We’re Thinking about tonight and it’s
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to do With the Community of People that are Healing and
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I’m not sure how to explain it except to Say that I’m a little bit Worried that
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When someone has a Difference of Opinion?
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To Ours
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That We automatically Call Them a Narcissist and I know, we’re Doing all this Research and they know that
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We are Learning as much as, we can?
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But I
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Think We need to Understand that everybody is in a Different Place in Their Recovery and
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And i’m Talking About some Groups that I’m Part of Took it of A comment here on my YouTube Channel Could very
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Well be you know a troll but
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People Throw That Word Around so much that
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What I’m Finding? Is it’s diluting it it’s diluting the Severity of what?
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These narcissists have done to us as a Community
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As
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People That Are Healing Together by Sharing and
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Effort of Lots of Youtubers Being
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Trolled and Things Happening that you know almost wants them to go off of the air
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But to me the most important part Is to think About
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Where you were?
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When There’s This other Person if You Have a Difference of Opinion?
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To Someone in This Group and I’m sorry in This Community and I’m Talking About Facebook Groups and Different Places
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That doesn’t Make Someone A Narcissist and
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I
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Think that, we’re all Overly Sensitive to being Called a Narcissist
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Because, We do Know what it means and so if you’re tall and you’re going to Say this so be it I can deal With
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That what I’m Worried About Is the People inside the Communities Inside my Facebook group Inside other Facebook Groups
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That
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Throw This Word Around a little bit too
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Carelessly
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Because
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We are Angry at our Narcissus and we are
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Sad That
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We were Treated This Way?
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put your
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Yourself in The Shoes of Someone Else that Is Just in A different place than you right now
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There’s Learning Maybe They’re Further Along and You Already learned that
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don’t
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Automatically Call Someone The Narcissist Income A bitch
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We’ve gone Whatever you want to but Just be Really Mindful that?
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You’re doing That because if you do that in This place of Safety Where we’ve all come to learn and to teach each Other
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From the Things That Had Happened to Us
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Together We Totally heal but if We separate?
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For Any Reason at all and We are not the Community that is Healing Together and We become I?
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Disagree With you I see it
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We see it in The World all the Time and I’m Just Worried but in our Little Corner a recovery World
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that We don’t Take that for granted and That
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We don’t over use the word We Really Think Hard Because some of The People that are being Called a narcissists Are
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very upset by it there’s A Lesson to learn Here
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Don’t Let the Hurt to fine you Show others That are Healing
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Nobody
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If You don’t agree Just Walk away
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Anger Breeds Drama
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Learn to Walk away from the fight Sometimes and That skill will save you from the mix Narcissists
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Think About That Feeling
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Think About your Own self-doubt did you have self-Doubt that Maybe you are the Narcissist
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Most People do they, Wonder because the Narcissist Is beating you Down so much that you think that you might be
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Remember A Narcissist, Would Never Think that they were so by the fact that you think that you were but you aren’t
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It’s a good thing that you don’t have to worry about so much hey I know I’m rambling but
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I just wanted to Say that point. Thanks
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