We have trusted too long, we could see that things didn’t add up. Yet we forgave, we gave them another chance, we took them back. It is in the understanding of the lies that narcissists tell that we find strength to stand up and free ourselves.
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Transcription:
Seven common lies the acts of service, we talked about that in the red flags, they do to increase their public image and they tell everybody and everyone leaves that they are wonderful, they pretend that they have deep spiritual beliefs yet their wolves in sheep’s clothing they don’t actually go to church, they don’t actually act like a Christian or whatever they are, they do things that are contradictory to saying they have deep spiritual beliefs of great stories. Number three, grade stories.
This means that they might have advanced degrees, they might have great success, but they lost a business and it was someone else’s fault. So it’s kind of like, “I don’t really know who what to believe because you wanna believe them, and if you love them and they’ve gotten to that part you believe what they’re saying, but start to look at the pieces and how they add together because if they say that they’ve done this and they can’t do something that we would think would be part of that they cheat, but they portray themselves as the best father, the best husband someone who had never ever, ever cheated. And that everyone else has cheated on them. It’s kind of funny how this is a recreated in a narcissist is that they all blame someone else for achieving on that they use other people’s story as their own. And these Outlander stories really don’t add up. So if you are smart like me and you start to hear the story or something else, it’s just not the right way, it’s not the same as it was last time in on a detail that might go unnoticed. Start to notice those is one of the other common lies is that they’re financially strong but they aren’t acting. It just… I don’t wanna go into details, but if they are saying, This is a common lie that they’re financially secure, it’s not true.
For nurses. “Sex equals power and control, and that’s what they want from you. They are very happy to just get what they have selected you as for a victim. And I know a lot of people that have had this experience, and when a “ardeidae that they want you in their life, for supply for a while, there’s something that they want. If you are a therapist, I need time for them or their children if you have a business, they might need your help and support if you are a great cook and a great entertainer they might want to parade you around and have people think that they have this perfect life, when in fact that’s only a part of their life, the rest of their life, they’re off and maybe creating a different life. Remember the days when there used to be like People married to three different people and no one ever knew it.
I’m sure that those people are in art, they live different lives they live different stories and how they keep it straight. I don’t know that that’s when the mask falls that is the ticket for you. And they say something that doesn’t add up. Think about it, think about it and write it down, keep a journal of all of these things that you’re worried about. Because in the end, when you pull that out these red flag these lies these behaviors are going to be part of the types of narcissists that are out there and if you’re a victim once, fear victim twice, it’s time for you. To take care of you, it’s not time to look at all these things that they do. Because I’m in the discovery stage, I’m in the detective stage, and I am learning all the stuff, but in the same way, I’m learning about me, and I’m learning about how to protect myself, I’m learning about how to help others and I hope that I can help someone in my stories and my knowledge.
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