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Hi there. This is Tracy, and I am here in Colorado actually the cloud are there went to Marian in here
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It is a fun day, and this is my favorite prayer spot behind my church
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I’m minier in a while, Mr.
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Trott my camera and come out here to talk to you so today. I want to talk to you about something
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I thought was pretty interesting and I wonder if you all have something that has been similar I
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Think what a narcissist doesn’t get their way
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when they lose
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You know they don’t care that you’ve lost your friends. They don’t care if you’ve lost their family because they’ve smeared you with them
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But they don’t like it it happens to them
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For those of people remember, I don’t know it’s like January. I made a video on a
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friend of a mutual friend of the narcissist in mind that
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had pretty badly lashed out at him on Facebook, and that was January and
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He basically said you’re no longer my friend. So please don’t contact me. Is that right in front of the world and
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This week I met that friend. I saw him went down there for dinner and
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He got a registered letter
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from
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3x
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Just days before
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Was L and I went there
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now the timing of this is kind of interesting because
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You know it was all over Facebook to our friends that she was coming back from Australia staying with me
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Happy to have her here. Everybody was la La happy
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well
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The Narcissus wrote a letter to this friend call him small
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failure the Narcissus wrote Bible letter and said
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the first paragraph was very much like I got sort of
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passive-Aggressive eye
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You listen to other people before listening to me about the situation Bob had unfriended him on Facebook on Linkedin?
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Everywhere he could possibly connect to him including blocking him an email and so I
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Think that really just off the narcissist is he lost that person in this fight
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Knowing regard for who I might have lost or anyone else would have lost, but it was him and it’s attacked his ego
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He did not like it. So we wondered what this letter was going to be and the first paragraph was very passive-aggressive
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And and just sort of like you could see if you read between the lines
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Thankfully less ow is an editor. And she could read it much more clearly than either of us cadoo but
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After he went through this like you didn’t trust in me after all these years of being friends
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How could you not come to me and ask me?
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well
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You are shithead
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And that’s why no one has asked for you your behavior is on Black and white supers at the police station
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And we know what you did we know that you have done so many other things and this guy’s just done
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He’s just some simply done the rest of the two pages was odd
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Because it was very similar to letters that he’d written me over and over and over again
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It was like a love letter
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It was sort of like well
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All the things we used to do when we’re both from Jersey and remember the time we did this and oh I want to be
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Your friend again and please listen to my side
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That’s how he hoovered me back a hundred times let me explain why I slept with someone else, please let me explain
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You know I can’t bear to be without you. They don’t like to lose and this letter was like
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Really really evident that
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He was grasping Force trauma it hurt him and to be honest with you that made us feel good
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Because you know what?
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He should be suffering
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he should be in a place where things in his life are not going well because he built it he
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created this freaking mess, not us I
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Believe, and I don’t know, but he had lost his children last year around this time
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There wasn’t allowed to see them. He wasn’t allowed to see his daughter. It was two years before that
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Even though I never understood it he would never explain it, but there were allegations against him shall. I say that
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would stop a parent from being able to see their child and
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Now hopefully both of those kids are free from him and his evil torture and manipulation
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But he did to them for years and years
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Another letter that came this week was an interesting one that
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There’s another mito here in Colorado. There’s one here boulder mine, and then there’s one down there in Denver and
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There’s been someone that’s been running it for some time
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due to
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No
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doings of his own the group was dropped and it was picked up by
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One of the members because the entire group was going to go to pot
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There’s a notice on meetup that says you if someone doesn’t step up this group is going to be disband in three days
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and so someone stepped up to it and
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that leader
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Was pretty horrific to all involved when he finally found out a few days later
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the girl who picked up the group had full intentions of sharing the people with him and
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we’d had a group that the women decided they would really like to speak only to women and
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that leaves the men kind of stuck out there and we’re going to work on that together, but
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this meetup leader wrote letters and was very passive-aggressive and
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manipulative I had a call with him to try to straighten it out and
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he wanted me to give him information on some of the members and I
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Wasn’t going to that’s a confidentiality thing if someone tells me something in confidence. I’m not going to share it
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and
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And he was relentless. He scared me actually
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to
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Continuously like mutilate and try it was baiting
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I never saw beating so clearly and when I would say no, no, thank you. I’m done. Thank you
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I’m not going to speak about that no no no
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Ever see him. He kept on coming and
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You know well, then give me your opinion of this now
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I happen to know and he has said it in meetups for a year and a half that I’ve been in
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that he records every single phone call that comes in so I knew from the start that he was recording my conversation and
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I wasn’t going to give him anything that he could use against me
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But I encourage you to think about when people manipulate you try to watch it
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It’s such a cool feeling to like actually see
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someone pulling manipulation tricks
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What the wind is coming? I think it’s going to rain
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Anyway, just spare I open watch the manipulation and just say no
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when they make this call and they
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Try to talk you into something
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Something you don’t want to do
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Stand your ground
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Don’t let them take that power away
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narcissists in my experience have
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Liked to write letters if they can’t reach out to you
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Another theme the love letter the I want you back
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I didn’t mean it never did you get those letters? I don’t know my God
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That can say that we probably did, but can we read between the lines and we see?
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What they’re trying to do to us?
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That’s the case
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We can see that and we have our Narc radar up, and it’s never going to happen again
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two degrees out here
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hot
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Wait anyway. This is tracy. That’s all I got
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Subscribe to my channel to watch other videos and lengthen share them comment. I love comments
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Encourage you to watch and listen no matter where you are
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So have a great
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Magical Day and
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Make Keith follow you all day long all week
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Wait a year. Thanks to the Tracy
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