A narcissist love bombs us and sometimes proclaims you are their soulmate. They know that if they tell us they are our soulmate then we have found someone that is connected in a deeper way, the connection goes beyond a normal relationship. Think back to the beginning if you can, did you feel this first or did they proclaim it and you started to believe them. Pretending to be a soulmate to get supply from us is a romance scam and has set us up for some pretty serious trouble when we find out the truth.
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Hi there this is Tracy
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Do you believe in soulmates I
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Think that in this error of our day and age
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It is something that we all want we all want to find that perfect soul mate, and I think we judge ourselves
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That we have or we haven’t and so we latch on to
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hope that someone could be that soulmate my
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Name is Tracy, and I have a channel dedicated to helping victims and survivors through
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Narcissists abuse and I speak from a victim
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Survivor mode to understand exactly what’s happened to me and as I learn I share it with you
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Let’s talk about a soulmate
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So maybe someone who is aligned with your soul rate
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Someone that believes and trusts and honors you
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Someone that can awaken
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Everything inside of you
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Because they give you so much trust and a security that we all yearn for
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They transcend you into a higher level of consciousness
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Did the narcissist do that to you or did they just pretend that they were our sole means
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Having a soul mate is
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something that I
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think
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Narcissus use against us we so deeply want that that connection to somebody that is
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Magical right it is something. I’m going to put on my glasses because I took notes
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It’s finally the one person that we fall in love with and we never disagree is
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Probably not realistic and yet we hold on to that
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Something that we like all the same things we communicate without speaking we finish each other sentence
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This person gives you full attention. They’re concerned. They’re caring they listen
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They are tender and comforting
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you get this gut feeling that they are the one there’s so much connection going on in chemistry and
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electricity that you believe that this sense of connection is like no other and
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What I want to talk to you about today is how a narcissus uses this
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Desire to scam you. It is a romance scam, and it is a a
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Soulmate scam if you will I got that word from Angie ikenson, and I really like it
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I think that we latch on to something that we want and
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It’s natural to want that but when someone takes advantage of our
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Desire to find that person in that connection they very often
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Mold themselves
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This is the mirroring part
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They mirror everything that you want they become that person that soulmate that is going to
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Ride off into the sunset with you, and we all believe this
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We’ve kind of been taught it at least my generation that that’s what we’re looking for that’s the holy grail of
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Relationships is to find somebody that has that deep connection read this and I’m going to read it out
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And then I can take off my glasses
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from a website called forever conscious
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And they’ve given us the explanation in their words of a soulmate and a life partner
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and this is what they’ve got to say a soulmate is someone who is aligned with your soul and
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Is sent to challenge an awakened and stir different parts of you in order for your soul to transcend?
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to a higher level of consciousness and awareness
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Once a lesson has been learned
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physical separation usually does occur a life partner
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However is a companion a friend a stable and secure individual who can you can lean on?
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Trust and depend to help you through life
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There are mutual feelings of love and respect and you are both in sync with each other’s needs and wants
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to me
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We want both of those into the same person and from what I understand about the soul connection is that?
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We might have known this person in another life and this connection is something that
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we keep repeating I was working with a psychic at the beginning of my recovery and she told me that my
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Ex-husband hadn’t murdered me in another life, and that is why we were together
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So if you go back to the past life belief and the soul spirit
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There’s something there to understand that
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There is a higher mission. There is something up there, and we all claw for it
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And we get manipulated because of our beliefs because we want this so badly
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a narcissistic sapanta jump us
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We need to find our soulmate inside ourselves
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We need to love ourselves more
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To know when people are screwing us around
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This is Tracy and that is all I have in sunny Colorado. It is March, and it is beautiful
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I don’t know why I have this sweater on I could probably be down to nothing because it is so gorgeous out here
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So that’s all I got today. Have a great day guys. Thank you
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