What tiny might experience is the fact that the style of parenting is abusive, and negative, once the public parent comes onto the set with his audience it’s lights camera action,
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When an abusive person is involved in Co parenting a child?
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There’s or someone else’s you can expect them to have a very rigid
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expectation with low empathy and an anger style that is powerful and aggressive a
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child will not understand this type of discipline and
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They will try to get them under the control as quickly as possible threatening
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Very often he will expect the children to be perfect like adults
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but they are just children and they need to run and play a
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Narcissist will try to take that away from them
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Will try to make them more grown-up than they need to be in many ways
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But through discipline and putting them down
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They are trying to control them
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surround themselves with more people
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When your co-parenting with a narcissist they will see themselves as the superior parent and will make sure that
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Everyone else thinks so too, and I’ll do that by when they’re around other people
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They will be the best parent they can be they will play ball with them and um
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Pretend to care about their violin lessons
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go to soccer games simply because people are watching it’s not real a
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narcissist
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will swing between
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the authoritative and the permissive
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depending on their mood if they’re tired and cranky you could expect them to be more angry and
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Intolerant of any kind of noise
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They will exploit your children for no reason at all
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simply because they had a bad day a
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Narcissist Generally feels that they are
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Doing everything and sacrificing all for their children yet. They do not
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Get involved in their activities
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Only on the days when they can show off and show that they also took a parent working so hard
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so hard
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to make everything perfect for his children they love so much a
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Narcissist will undermine the power of the other parent overruling decisions
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Ridiculing her in front of the children portraying himself as the only one that matters
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They were so contempt towards their partner and say bad things to their children about them
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Is this ever happen to you? If you have a child with a narcissist were they very upset when the child was born?
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They very often are because now you [have] to split your attention. They can’t be the main act
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What are they going to do they’re going to resent this child?
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Because they’ve taken away their supply
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don’t worry about getting more right now if
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A narcissist should go into counseling for parenting all couples
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or when they’re in a social situation
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They are going to seem like loving and attentive parents they’re going to put on the grandest show
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Everyone will think that they are such perfect parents when in reality
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It’s just another Act act one I
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Just heard a story a terrible terrible story
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of a person
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who had the baby with the narcissist and
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he disappeared right before the baby was born and
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Then he insisted the pictures be sent and he put it up on Facebook and showed the world his beautiful, baby
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but he’s never talked to
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How fucked up is that?
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keep this in [mind] if you’re going to have [the] baby with the narcissist or she might not know he’s a narcissist, but
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If you’d be uses you even verbally the more frequently he abuses you
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The more frequently he will abuse his children
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Children are very often injured while their mothers are punched and beaten
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And around this off I’d like [to] give you some proof and evidence
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Of what might be in store for your children
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Right now in the United states there are 32 sorry 42 million
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sexually abused adults
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There are survivors from when they were children
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Just give you a little bit of facts one tiny little [faq]
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233 million people in the world each year are sexually abused as children
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By someone they know
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233
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million
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Children ah
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sexually abused each year in the world of
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That 233 million people children that are all sexually abused every year in the world
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150 million of them are little girls and
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73 million Or Little Boys
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If you don’t protect your children from ana narcissist and protect yourself from the narcissist this could be
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their future
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verbal abuse emotional abuse sexual abuse
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They are Gateways
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for the narcissist to use against us
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Pay attention not only for you for your children
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Be strong for them protected him now
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