During the angry phase I think we all think about revenge. Sometimes years later those thoughts come flooding back, what do we do? Taking revenge is never good….. period. It lowers us down to their level of low, what if they broke the law, stole, cheated and lied. What if you had evidence that could cause them harm. Should we just walk away and let them get away with it? Does it hold you to them for more time.
I want your opinion, what would you do?
Transcription:
0:00:00.000,0:00:05.250
Hi, Hi there. This is Tracy. I would like to talk to you today about revenge
0:00:06.879,0:00:08.590
I
0:00:08.590,0:00:11.340
Think when we go through the angry state oh
0:00:11.980,0:00:18.750
We plot in our mind revenge we plot and we think and we want revenge
0:00:19.480,0:00:24.420
The Anger is probably something that you have never experienced before
0:00:26.470,0:00:32.579
Being betrayed by someone having a relationship not work out in the first place is
0:00:34.210,0:00:36.300
Painful right there’s there’s no question that
0:00:39.340,0:00:44.430
it hurts and so I think in the beginning we have lots of
0:00:45.640,0:00:52.770
revenge dreams I certainly did oh my God and now I’m faced with something and I’d like your opinion on it because
0:00:56.020,0:01:02.459
I’ll come on the other end of the recovery spectrum here, and I know I still have a lot more to do and
0:01:03.160,0:01:07.500
I’ve been working hard at understanding the patterns of my life and
0:01:08.200,0:01:10.710
why I was attracted and
0:01:11.439,0:01:14.069
Allowed that kind of shitty behavior
0:01:15.310,0:01:22.650
Why I allowed someone to control me in the name of love. I mean it. There’s so much that we’re going to learn right but
0:01:23.890,0:01:25.890
so revenge
0:01:27.880,0:01:30.209
Have you taken a revenge on your narcissist?
0:01:32.410,0:01:36.630
Didn’t work. Did it feel good that you did that I?
0:01:37.660,0:01:39.660
Can imagine it would?
0:01:39.850,0:01:44.010
I would have matter that’s like just the thought of it is enough to say
0:01:45.220,0:01:47.220
Hmm
0:01:47.380,0:01:49.380
but the reality is
0:01:49.870,0:01:54.539
Revenge doesn’t really ever help us it only brings us down to their level
0:01:55.900,0:01:57.900
But what if you had an opportunity?
0:01:58.180,0:02:03.600
What if you found out something about your narcissist that could land them in jail for example?
0:02:04.750,0:02:06.750
Would you tell people?
0:02:07.780,0:02:12.030
Would you stoop so low as to rat them out?
0:02:13.390,0:02:15.390
That’s where I am right now
0:02:15.430,0:02:18.420
Some really good juice that I just found
0:02:19.630,0:02:21.839
When I was cleaning out some files yesterday
0:02:22.990,0:02:25.740
And that revenge thing popped back into my head
0:02:25.740,0:02:30.419
It hasn’t been there in a long time and the revenge thing popped back into my head
0:02:30.420,0:02:34.199
and I’m struggling with the push-me pull-you of
0:02:35.110,0:02:37.110
Should I take action?
0:02:38.290,0:02:43.529
Should I do what is right? Is it revenge if you’re doing? What is right? I?
0:02:44.440,0:02:47.429
Mean it is revenge. Yes, because you’re doing it
0:02:49.510,0:02:55.469
Because they did something to you right that’s kind of the mentality behind it but for me
0:02:58.000,0:03:02.399
It’s about breaking the law it’s about doing things that are
0:03:03.880,0:03:05.880
should not be allowed and
0:03:06.640,0:03:09.419
not be allowed because they hurt me but
0:03:10.150,0:03:15.480
lawful things that someone did to stay extort money out of someone or
0:03:18.070,0:03:21.119
Do some really bad things to someone
0:03:22.690,0:03:27.059
if you knew this information would you use it against them and
0:03:27.760,0:03:32.880
Are we sinking down as low as they are because of it?
0:03:34.430,0:03:37.750
I’m torn got to super medium and
0:03:39.290,0:03:42.160
Nothing. I think right now would make me happier than
0:03:43.250,0:03:49.779
To reveal this information, and just have them have a little bit of pain, just a little bit of heartache
0:03:49.940,0:03:53.949
Maybe having some legal bills or have to deal with some shit themselves
0:03:54.680,0:04:00.069
Would make me trophy and is that bad for me is it bad that I think this way?
0:04:00.069,0:04:04.389
I know that we called it and I know in this inning. I freakin
0:04:06.290,0:04:07.910
dreamt of burning
0:04:07.910,0:04:12.279
Their houses down right not really but you know these things go through your mind
0:04:12.739,0:04:17.048
voice on your shoulders like in your revenge revenge revenge, but
0:04:20.120,0:04:21.980
I’m faced with this
0:04:21.980,0:04:26.799
So I want to hear what you would say because we’re all recovering together here
0:04:27.590,0:04:29.919
Can I have a YouTube channel and decided to?
0:04:31.380,0:04:36.649
Talk about my experiences doesn’t mean that. I’m not where you are or where you were?
0:04:37.500,0:04:40.160
Until I’m looking for guidance from you right now
0:04:41.370,0:04:43.370
Would you take revenge?
0:04:46.230,0:04:52.279
If they had done something illegal, and you have the evidence to prove it
0:04:53.430,0:04:55.110
to me
0:04:55.110,0:04:58.849
computer image that it does if it doesn’t so
0:04:59.370,0:05:01.820
anyway, I welcome your comments and
0:05:02.370,0:05:05.000
as always please subscribe to my channel and
0:05:06.120,0:05:09.440
Let’s have a discussion about this because we revenge is so big
0:05:09.600,0:05:14.450
We all want it in fact one of my biggest videos is on revenge, everyone wants revenge revenge revenge
0:05:18.090,0:05:20.959
I’ll help me out here. What would you do if you had?
0:05:21.960,0:05:24.560
incriminating evidence against your narcissist
0:05:25.710,0:05:27.710
That might put them in jail
0:05:28.380,0:05:30.409
Does that make me?
0:05:32.220,0:05:34.760
then I know I’m not narcissist, but
0:05:36.060,0:05:38.390
Does it make me as well and pay our?
0:05:40.860,0:05:42.860
Thanks, this is Tracy
Listen to my podcasts anytime by subscribing with your favorite provider!
