During the angry phase I think we all think about revenge. Sometimes years later those thoughts come flooding back, what do we do? Taking revenge is never good….. period. It lowers us down to their level of low, what if they broke the law, stole, cheated and lied. What if you had evidence that could cause them harm. Should we just walk away and let them get away with it? Does it hold you to them for more time.
I want your opinion, what would you do?
Hi, Hi there. This is Tracy. I would like to talk to you today about revenge
Think when we go through the angry state oh
We plot in our mind revenge we plot and we think and we want revenge
The Anger is probably something that you have never experienced before
Being betrayed by someone having a relationship not work out in the first place is
Painful right there’s there’s no question that
it hurts and so I think in the beginning we have lots of
revenge dreams I certainly did oh my God and now I’m faced with something and I’d like your opinion on it because
I’ll come on the other end of the recovery spectrum here, and I know I still have a lot more to do and
I’ve been working hard at understanding the patterns of my life and
why I was attracted and
Allowed that kind of shitty behavior
Why I allowed someone to control me in the name of love. I mean it. There’s so much that we’re going to learn right but
Have you taken a revenge on your narcissist?
Didn’t work. Did it feel good that you did that I?
Can imagine it would?
I would have matter that’s like just the thought of it is enough to say
but the reality is
Revenge doesn’t really ever help us it only brings us down to their level
But what if you had an opportunity?
What if you found out something about your narcissist that could land them in jail for example?
Would you tell people?
Would you stoop so low as to rat them out?
That’s where I am right now
Some really good juice that I just found
When I was cleaning out some files yesterday
And that revenge thing popped back into my head
It hasn’t been there in a long time and the revenge thing popped back into my head
and I’m struggling with the push-me pull-you of
Should I take action?
Should I do what is right? Is it revenge if you’re doing? What is right? I?
Mean it is revenge. Yes, because you’re doing it
Because they did something to you right that’s kind of the mentality behind it but for me
It’s about breaking the law it’s about doing things that are
should not be allowed and
not be allowed because they hurt me but
lawful things that someone did to stay extort money out of someone or
Do some really bad things to someone
if you knew this information would you use it against them and
Are we sinking down as low as they are because of it?
I’m torn got to super medium and
Nothing. I think right now would make me happier than
To reveal this information, and just have them have a little bit of pain, just a little bit of heartache
Maybe having some legal bills or have to deal with some shit themselves
Would make me trophy and is that bad for me is it bad that I think this way?
I know that we called it and I know in this inning. I freakin
dreamt of burning
Their houses down right not really but you know these things go through your mind
voice on your shoulders like in your revenge revenge revenge, but
I’m faced with this
So I want to hear what you would say because we’re all recovering together here
Can I have a YouTube channel and decided to?
Talk about my experiences doesn’t mean that. I’m not where you are or where you were?
Until I’m looking for guidance from you right now
Would you take revenge?
If they had done something illegal, and you have the evidence to prove it
computer image that it does if it doesn’t so
anyway, I welcome your comments and
as always please subscribe to my channel and
Let’s have a discussion about this because we revenge is so big
We all want it in fact one of my biggest videos is on revenge, everyone wants revenge revenge revenge
I’ll help me out here. What would you do if you had?
incriminating evidence against your narcissist
That might put them in jail
Does that make me?
then I know I’m not narcissist, but
Does it make me as well and pay our?
Thanks, this is Tracy
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