Narcissists use us for some type of supply. Supply means a reason they used us, sex, money, arm candy, to have children with you and show the world that they are great dads or moms. We have to dig deep and understand what they used us for so we can understand and set boundaries.
Hi, this is Tracy tonight. I want to talk to you about
What type of supply your narcissist is you [poor]?
We were all here for a reason. We’re all [here] [for] supply
Every single one of us whether it was our parents or our sisters or our brothers?
romantic husband wife
we have all been
[subjected] to a narcissist [and]
While we cannot control that our parents gave birth and had us
That we are protected from them and that they came for a reason
Use us for a reason whether it was just to tell them how wonderful
They are or whether it was to hold our head over the toilet when they threw up?
They were using us for some kind of supply
often if it’s a parent it could just be to triangulate all the siblings and
Even mom dad and you they need that person to fill in the blank to
Talk about the other and to sort of ruin them so
The most common things that people talk about that are they’re used for as supply are certainly out
Of sitting on my foot
narcissus like to have sex a lot and
very often with multiple partners with out anyone knowing it, but um
They use us for sex
They use us for money
So many people financially abused lost everything
[most] houses that they owned before the narcissus got there
These guys are mean your scales are crazy
And you have to protect yourself
But you also have to understand. What made you vulnerable?
Are you codependent?
think about these things
Think really hard [write] down for me
3x [use] me for babysitting pack his house to take them on vacations to pay for things for sex I
Wonder you can figure out
 things that
[your] narcissists used you for
if you’re new to this like discovering
narcissists you might not understand what supply is or understand what they used you for
if you’ve been married for 25 years [and]
If I had a pretty good life, they might have been using you as a cover
They very often use people as a cover
and that’s what the whole big [family] thing is is they can go to work and manipulate people and
Get higher and higher and higher [on] the corporate ladder. If that’s what they’re after
so that they can
Just get supply from them, and you’re sort of a sub supply
You’re probably waiting on them making them dinner doing everything for them
You just think that’s your bowl in your house and your [family] [I]
Take your etiquette. He does he goes to work I take care of the kids
There you go. That’s a supply you take care of the kids
Here is made probably pick up the dry cleaning
Take the car to get the oil change so he doesn’t have to and I bet there are some of you that most the lawn
ok I’m just saying that’s boy jobs, and
There’s also girl to get mad at me and say [I] could move on yeah yeah, yeah
But you [know] unless they’re going to equal share on laundry you got to figure this
laying it out there right [now] just
[try] to figure out what did your narcissist use you for?
They used you for something and [the] sooner you find out
Just one more layer to the armor that you will have protecting yourself from
Someone else coming in and using that same vulnerability against you again
This is tracy [and] that is all I have great night