What is gaslighting? Subscribe in a reader Gaslighting is a tactic used by abusers to try to change the victims reality. By implanting lies into the mind of the victim then trying to convince them that what they knew to be true is fake and only they can save you from losing your mind. http://ia601509.us.archive.org/2/items/WhatIsGaslighting/What%20is%20gaslighting.mp3