When your adult child is a narcissist – how to navigate the grandchildren and spouse When a parent saw the signs of their child growing up on the narcissistic side, they might have gotten them counseling. You might have tried every trick in the book to stop the insanity in your house. And in some cases you made it through, your kid grew up and left the house and the odd sense of peace comes from the eggshell dance your family lived under. what happens now, they are married and maybe have kids, what do you do when you see behaviors that affect your grandchildren or their spouse. Do you speak up? how can you help