When normal relationships end, we get sad, we heal we move on. If someone decides not to be with someone and leaves them all messed up a normal person would just go away. Narcissists do nothing right, they are the stuff that fatal attraction was build on. Boiling bunnies is probably within possibility
This video I talk about something that happened this week that just creeped me out, to learn my narcissist was out there trying to smear me – or (us) . does your narcissist keep coming back like gum in your hair? Watch this video
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this week in my world I
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Have a mutual friend with my last narcissist, and I didn’t know him
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until after the
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Discard
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he’d been my Facebook friend as he is with so many others a man who is
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I would say quite famous in the marketing world
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quite a
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superstar of
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Umpteen thousand followers everywhere he goes and his word and his
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Mantra what he stands for is honesty love trust and
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While he’s out there doing marketing stuff. This is the means that he makes every day. They’re inspirational to us they engage us and
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Everybody loves him. I was honored to meet him last year and
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And go on a little ski trip with him
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And he saved me when I was like going downhill backwards you know you fall and your skI goes down
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And then you’re like sliding well this guy was with us, and he saved me he put his body in front of me
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and he shielded me from sliding further down the hill got my skI and gotten back on my feet and
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That’s the kind of person. This is this is not a person that wants to get involved in Petty
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Stupid things and yet, I believe this week he was
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put into a situation with my ex narcissist as well as someone else that triggered him and
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He wrote a post and he labeled it long post. It was really big
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This long post started out by talking about his friend and his friend that he had
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to his house
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Someone that wasn’t in that
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30,000 people someone that was close to him someone he trusted someone he loaned money to
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He talked about this friend to show that
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This was not just a casual acquaintance or Facebook friend or connection on Linkedin he told his story to
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his audience and to his friend and
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he also
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Brought in this stuff that my ex nurse had done having me arrested
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giving HPV to multiple people without care or concern
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taking money from others when he had enough
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This man went to go on to say that basically don’t fuck with my friends
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and
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He knows both was L&I and he was defending our honor
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there was another conversation in that long post that was 20 benefits that was someone else who had done something to his wife and
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He was just disappointed in his friend
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this post triggered a
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Shitstorm movie would of
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people that were
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Giving kudos to him for standing up and being a big brother
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standing up and protecting people
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that
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didn’t have a voice I
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Really respect this man for doing this
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but within a couple of days he still connected to my ex narcissist and
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within a couple of days he reposted that long post, but he put a whole block at the top of it he put a
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Block at the top of the new post and said he doesn’t really repeat posts
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But that just one had brought so much engagement
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and I think what had happened was
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My Ex Narcissus menace and got upset with it and tried to reach out to him
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but in the second post he basically told him that
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You know he didn’t want any narcissist. He I mean he may be mean
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He really like hammered him and told him to leave him alone that that he was not welcome in his life
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I’m pretty sure that he tried to defend himself, but this is all speculation. I don’t know
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That is deflection of taking accountability for what happened
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We all have accountability. I have accountability shouldn’t have been in his driveway to get it
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but what he did was very heinous after that and
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that is what is not a good person that was not a good soul, and I applaud my friend for sticking up for
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both Lavalle and I and this other first, but it scares me to see
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That my narcissist has not given up on me or given up on
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Without this has been way more than a year since either one of us have seen him
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We don’t care what I’m doing here on YouTube has nothing to do with my story. My story is something that I?
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dabble in between and the different things that I try to teach
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But into every lesson that I do I sit there, and I research and I listen and I read and I learn and I watch
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I’m not just talking about my experiences. I talk to
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Survivors
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everyday
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That have lived very similar things when I get comments here on YouTube
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we’re all interacting army support groups were all interacting I’m hearing and seeing your stories, so
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The fact that he just won’t leave us alone
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The fact that his new girlfriend is talking probably making up another story
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We know he’s going around town telling everyone how crazy exes are
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We have to watch out for the wolf in sheep’s clothing in fact this man use that exact term in his post
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Stop trying to be good
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and get on with your life get into a different circle if you
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Know the truth has come out in this one make a new life you blew it
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Leave the victims alone
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We don’t care about you
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and
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Stop trying to make another story that
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Isn’t real I?
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Put this in a post the other day that one day stop lying. I’ll stop telling the truth
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What I do speak of truth
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And I speak from experience and if my lessons, but I was put here to learn can help someone else
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By golly, I’m going to talk about it. I
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think that’s all I got this is tracy and it is a beautiful day, so I’m going to go enjoy it peace out and
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We’re all going to recover
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