My new lens is picking up examples of narcissistic behaviors that I read about in psychology today. Then examples came to my head of things I missed. Picking through the garbage of your brain learn to identify so you can protect yourself from a narcissist. Four narcissistic behaviors as common as we now know they are were things we excepted as differences. We reacted, we were pissed but we listened to their excuses and forgave them. These memories have to be found. Dig deep