People either love or hate a narcissist. The reason that this extreme exists is:

Narcissists are highly manipulative and charming. They lie: they are convincing liars, and many times come across as kind and caring people. So, it is quite easy for people to really love them and only see the good in them.

On the other end of the spectrum, there are those people who have been exposed to the behavioural patterns of the narcissist long enough to firstly, recognise them and secondly, want no more to do with them. 

Obviously, there is also a “middle-ground” person who wants to believe the narcissist, but is confused by actions not lining up with words.

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