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Loving a Narcissistic is similar to being a drug addict. You get addicted to the high of the lovebombing intensity at first. You continue the drug despite knowing this isn't healthy. You get addicted to the drama, but can't find your way out. You seek the high you had in the beginning but it never comes. Only pain and addiction to an illusion remains. - Tracy A Malone
Loving a Narcissistic is similar to being a drug addict. You get addicted to the high of the lovebombing intensity at first. You continue the drug despite knowing this isn't healthy. You get addicted to the drama, but can't find your way out. You seek the high you had in the beginning but it never comes. Only pain and addiction to an illusion remains. - Tracy A Malone

Narcissistic Mothers - Why did you have me? Was it to hook daddy? Why did you treat me the way you did? What happened to you to make you able to hurt your child? -Tracy A Malone
Narcissistic Mothers - Why did you have me? Was it to hook daddy? Why did you treat me the way you did? What happened to you to make you able to hurt your child? -Tracy A Malone

Co-parenting with a narcissist: Will seem like you can never get through this. The intense trauma will ease when you learn to manage them so you stay healthy. Your kids need you - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Co-parenting with a narcissist: Will seem like you can never get through this. The intense trauma will ease when you learn to manage them so you stay healthy. Your kids need you - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Narcissistic abuse: It's hard to be erased when you learn it was all an act.
Narcissistic abuse: It's hard to be erased when you learn it was all an act.

Betrayal - Usually occurs by someone you love and trust. That is why it hurts so much. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Betrayal - Usually occurs by someone you love and trust. That is why it hurts so much. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Wake up and learn about narcissistic behaviors and abuse. You are under a spell and every piece of yourself is being lost. Get answers: NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Wake up and learn about narcissistic behaviors and abuse. You are under a spell and every piece of yourself is being lost. Get answers: NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Stop trying to save the narcissist! They can't change and you are in love with an illusion. - Tracy A Malone
Stop trying to save the narcissist! They can't change and you are in love with an illusion. - Tracy A Malone

Narcissistic Abuse: Protect your kids and teach them what behaviors are not ok. - Tracy A Malone
Narcissistic Abuse: Protect your kids and teach them what behaviors are not ok. - Tracy A Malone

Co-Parenting with a narcissist: Plan for nasty behaviors so you are not blindsided. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Co-Parenting with a narcissist: Plan for nasty behaviors so you are not blindsided. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Co-Parenting with a narcissist works best if you show no emotion. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Co-Parenting with a narcissist works best if you show no emotion. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

The truth of narcissistic love: They never loved you! Period! It was an act designed to trap you to get what they need. The narcissist is not capable of love, nor do they seek it. They seek supply of your efforts and gifts, and they seek to control you. In that control they find peace. If you step out of line, question their actions or challenge them. You quickly become the enemy they must destroy. You know their secret and you must be eliminated. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
The truth of narcissistic love: They never loved you! Period! It was an act designed to trap you to get what they need. The narcissist is not capable of love, nor do they seek it. They seek supply of your efforts and gifts, and they seek to control you. In that control they find peace. If you step out of line, question their actions or challenge them. You quickly become the enemy they must destroy. You know their secret and you must be eliminated. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Loving a narcissist is like loving an alien because they are not like us. They are missing a gene that makes them unable to feel empathy. Without empathy they cannot love. But they can play the part of someone they love which is why you fell for them. - Tracy A Malone
Loving a narcissist is like loving an alien because they are not like us. They are missing a gene that makes them unable to feel empathy. Without empathy they cannot love. But they can play the part of someone they love which is why you fell for them. - Tracy A Malone

Rushing intimacy - Narcissist sweep you off your feet. Learn how you were conned. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Rushing intimacy - Narcissist sweep you off your feet. Learn how you were conned. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Co-Parenting with a narcissist can be done, but it isn't easy. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Co-Parenting with a narcissist can be done, but it isn't easy. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Courage - "Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim." - Nora Ephron
Courage - "Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim." - Nora Ephron

The truth of narcissistic love: They told you they were loving. They told you the were smart. They told you the never met anyone like you. They told you they would never leave. They lied! Actions speak louder than words. Love yourself and get free. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
The truth of narcissistic love: They told you they were loving. They told you the were smart. They told you the never met anyone like you. They told you they would never leave. They lied! Actions speak louder than words. Love yourself and get free. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Narcissistic Mothers: What kind of a mother doesn't care about her own child? What kind of a woman is she? Why does everyone believe she is such a great mom? Why God is she mine? - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Narcissistic Mothers: What kind of a mother doesn't care about her own child? What kind of a woman is she? Why does everyone believe she is such a great mom? Why God is she mine? - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Co-Parenting with a narcissist is not a team sport. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Co-Parenting with a narcissist is not a team sport. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Co-Parenting with a narcissist: Don't ever ask the kids about their visits or make them spies. Make it safe for them to talk if they want to share. This will not be easy, but it is another no contact survival skill your kids need you to learn. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Co-Parenting with a narcissist: Don't ever ask the kids about their visits or make them spies. Make it safe for them to talk if they want to share. This will not be easy, but it is another no contact survival skill your kids need you to learn. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Confusing and painful narcissistic love: Love should never be confusing. Love should leave no reason to doubt someone's actions. Love should never leave you wanting to die. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Confusing and painful narcissistic love: Love should never be confusing. Love should leave no reason to doubt someone's actions. Love should never leave you wanting to die. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Narcissists can easily abandon people because they can't love. To them you were no more important than someone that served them dinner last night. Except you did it for years! - Tracy A Malone
Narcissists can easily abandon people because they can't love. To them you were no more important than someone that served them dinner last night. Except you did it for years! - Tracy A Malone

The scales of justice often do not apply when divorcing a narcissist. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
The scales of justice often do not apply when divorcing a narcissist. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

The truth of narcissistic love: If love happens too fast, slowing it down is a test you can do. One way to weed a narcissist out is to test them. They only want quick easy supply. If you aren't gullible at the beginning they see that you are not controllable and they leave. A real person that loves you will give you space and time to fall in love. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
The truth of narcissistic love: If love happens too fast, slowing it down is a test you can do. One way to weed a narcissist out is to test them. They only want quick easy supply. If you aren't gullible at the beginning they see that you are not controllable and they leave. A real person that loves you will give you space and time to fall in love. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Co-Parenting with a narcissist: Prioritize your battles by safety of the kids. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Co-Parenting with a narcissist: Prioritize your battles by safety of the kids. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Courage: "Without fear there cannot be courage." - Christopher Paolini
Courage: "Without fear there cannot be courage." - Christopher Paolini

Simplify after abuse: Life happens again after you don't give a shit. - Tracy A Malone
Simplify after abuse: Life happens again after you don't give a shit. - Tracy A Malone

Narcissistic Mothers: Knowing that your mother is a narcissistic person doesn't make it easier when she dies and you bury her. That's because you are also burying your last hope that she could turn into the mother you wished she'd been. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Narcissistic Mothers: Knowing that your mother is a narcissistic person doesn't make it easier when she dies and you bury her. That's because you are also burying your last hope that she could turn into the mother you wished she'd been. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

The fantasy of narcissistic love: The day you met her you couldn't believe how caring and not for this person was. They seemed so sweet to learn about your dreams. The things you loved to do were exactly the same as what they liked. Time together at first was easy and you couldn't get enough. Once you were hooked it all changed and this person of your dreams came the star of your nightmare. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
The fantasy of narcissistic love: The day you met her you couldn't believe how caring and not for this person was. They seemed so sweet to learn about your dreams. The things you loved to do were exactly the same as what they liked. Time together at first was easy and you couldn't get enough. Once you were hooked it all changed and this person of your dreams came the star of your nightmare. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Narcissistic Mothers: As your mother gets older less people will see her evil, yet she will make no friends. She simply won't have the energy to keep up the false self and she will die alone. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Narcissistic Mothers: As your mother gets older less people will see her evil, yet she will make no friends. She simply won't have the energy to keep up the false self and she will die alone. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

"If your heart is broken, make art with the pieces." - Shane Koyczan
"If your heart is broken, make art with the pieces." - Shane Koyczan

Co-Parenting with a narcissist may need you to learn to manage down your expectations. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Co-Parenting with a narcissist may need you to learn to manage down your expectations. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Co-Parenting with a narcissist: Needs you to learn how to communicate past triggers. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
Co-Parenting with a narcissist: Needs you to learn how to communicate past triggers. - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

The truth of narcissistic love: If you are always the "bad guy", the one who can't do anything right. Run! - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com
The truth of narcissistic love: If you are always the "bad guy", the one who can't do anything right. Run! - NarcissistAbuseSupport.com

Courage: "You cannot swim for new horizons until you have courage to lose sight of the shore." - William Faulkner
Courage: "You cannot swim for new horizons until you have courage to lose sight of the shore." - William Faulkner

Courage: "Courage is the most important of all the virtues because without courage, you can't practice any other virtue consistently." - Maya Angelou
Courage: "Courage is the most important of all the virtues because without courage, you can't practice any other virtue consistently." - Maya Angelou