Narcissists are like gum on the bottom of your shoe… it just won’t go away. They fight just to piss you off. Do you want it to stop, yes. Will they…. no. Why do they do it… because it works! Threatening you is easy if they see you struggling with it, for them it’s a game of control. Don’t let them win… change YOU till you heal. Change the way his games effect you. Turn on the “I” don’t give a shit and sticks and stones…. when you stop reacting they will be bored and move on to someone they can get supply from. Your torrent is supply.
Narcissists will never change, so free yourself and change the way you let them bother you and they will be gone so fast your head will spin…