Narcissists are blamers, they are not capable to take responsibility. At first you know it is not your fault, over time you get exhausted from trying to explain your innocence and you surrender to the lies, just to keep the peace.
While a narcissist with dementia may forget to be mean and forget the game, many narcissists get meaner as they age. Sadly their prey becomes innocent seniors and they take advantage of them not knowing the red flags. To their family they play the inheritance game continuing to pit family against each other. Often cutting family out of the will as one last "fuck you".
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In narcissistic abuse recovery you will raise your awareness to bad behavior. You will see peoples actions through a lens of protection and no longer tolerate drama and lower vibrational energy vampires.
Of course knowing red flags is important but tapping into and listening to how someone makes you feel, is the key to happiness.
A drama free zone must be the protection you deploy. If someone causes you to run to others to try to understand their behaviors, this relationship is not healthy for you. We need no labels, we need no proof they are a narcissist, you need to listen to your gut and you need courage to walk away.
No drama equals peace
Drama equals confusion, sadness and fear.
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WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU SHARE WITH ANOTHER SURVIVOR OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE? WHAT ONE THING SHOULD THEY KNOW?
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He didn't even have the balls to Hoover me! Why bother dumbass, I have never been happier. You only liked me when I was your slave. Be gone!
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None of us deserve a lying narcissist?
There is a bit of truth to feeling unworthy of love that makes victims vulnerable. Narcissists take
advantage of that wound.
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IS HOW YOUR
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BODY
AND
MIND
FEEL
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makes them vulnerable to repeating abuse pallerns.
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COMMUNICATION WITH A NARCISSIST OFTEN GOES CIRCULAR. WE CALL THIS WORD SALAD.
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A narcissist gaslights victims to believe that no one likes them. Everyone thinks terrible things about them and that no one would believe them if they tell a story of abuse. This is gaslighting intimidation 101. Share your story, educate others and let's not keep these assholes protected any longer.
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IS DEAFENING
AND CRUEL ABUSE TACTIC
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reactions,
rejection on abandonment.
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CAN'T DO ANYTHING RIGHT
FUNNY, HOW NARCISSISTS CAN'T DO ANYTHING THAT ISN'T SELF SERVING OR ABUSIVE TO OTHERS. YET THEY ARE ABLE TO JUDGE THEIR VICTIMS AND CONTROL THEIR MINDS INTO BELIEVING THAT THEY ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH.
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THIS KEEPS THE VICTIM LIVING IN COGNITIVE DISSONANCE
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ENOUGH."
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ON THEIR SIDE, OH GOLDEN ONE.... YOU THINK YOU ARE SAFE. THE TRUTH IS THEY WILL QUICKLY DISCARD YOUR ASS AND FLIP YOUR GOLDEN ROLE TO SCAPEGOAT. THIS IS THE ILLUSION OF LOYALTY.
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ANGER
VICTIMS OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE One day you may get angry at yourself. Angry for staying, angry for allowing bad behavior without a stronger fight, and angry for not knowing exactly what this was. Getting angry at yourself is a stage you must go through as you look for answers. Anger propels change, without anger victims stay or allow them back. Your goal should be to move through the anger and not stay in anger too long.
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ABUSE?
Amazing new tool.
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