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  • Start here
    • What Is Narcissistic Abuse?
    • Who Are These Narcissists?
    • Stages of Narcissistic Abuse
    • Narc Speak
    • What is NPD?
    • How It Feels To A Victim
    • Early Warning Signs of Abuse
    • Traits of Supply
    • Stages of Recovery
    • Types of Abuse
    • Why do people stay?
    • Symptoms of PTSD
  • Red Flags
    • Personality Traits
      • Fantasies of Unlimited Power
      • Believe They Should Associate with Special People
      • Sense of Entitlement
      • Lacks Empathy
      • Arrogant/Patronizing
      • Charming
      • Chronic Lying
    • Idealize
      • Love Bombing
      • Rushing Intimacy
      • Soul Mate Scam
      • Mirroring
      • Friends Love/Hate Them
      • Narcissists Are Actors
      • Narcissist Masks
      • Inappropriate Emotions
      • Use Guilt & Pity Ploys
    • Devalue
      • Have Feeling Something is Off
      • Crazy People in Their Past
      • Reckless Impulsive Behavior
      • No Regard for Rules or Laws
      • Pattern of Instability
      • Control vacations/parties?
      • Triangulation
      • Gaslighting
      • No Accountability
      • Degrade/Humiliate You
      • Behavior Never Changes
      • Poor Financial Management
      • Fragmented Relationships
    • Discard
      • Cheating
      • Never Apologizes
      • Hoovering
      • Smear Campaigns
      • Stalking
      • What are Flying Monkeys?
      • You Feel You Might Be in Danger
      • No Contact
      • The Grand Finale
    • What Are Green Flags
      • Why You?
      • Why You Were Targeted
      • Learn Your Vulnerabilities
      • What Type Of Supply Are You
  • Who Is Your Narcissist
    • Covert Narcissist
    • Narcissistic Relationship
    • Divorcing a Narcissist
    • Co-parenting with a narcissist
    • Narcissistic Parent
    • Narcissistic Brother or Sister
    • Is your child a narcissist?
    • Narcissistic In-Laws
    • Narcissistic Daughter In-Law or Narcissistic Son In-Law
    • Narcissistic Friend
    • Narcissistic Co-Worker
    • How To Help A Friend
  • Coaching
    • Coaching
    • Online Groups
    • Online Workshops
      • Learn To Create a Narc-Proof Parenting Plan
      • Plan Your Exit With A Leaving Plan
      • Stop Attracting Narcissists Workshop
      • Learn To Set Boundaries
      • Learn To Set Up Your Own Support Group
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    • Divorcing Your Narcissist Resources
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    • My Story Of Narcissistic Abuse Journal
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What are the Red Flags Of Narcissistic Abuse

Welcome to the journey of understanding what the red flags that are commonly missed by victims. Every victim’s story is different yet there are common behaviors that most of them endure. Remember that every narcissist molds themselves into exactly what you want, what you are looking for in a person, what your assets are and what your vulnerabilities are. Every game is similar and customized for you. Bottom line, their behaviors are based on you. If you are an easy target they might not have to pull all the tricks out of the bag. If you are a person with stronger boundaries they might have to work a little harder to win you and a little harder to destroy you.
We break the Red Flags into four categories – How they act – patterns to watch for – personality traits – what happened. Get started anywhere in the list and use the menu in the sidebar of each page to navigate to learn more red flags of a narcissist.
If you are just learning we suggest you start by understanding some of the terms that are used in this narc-world – we call this narc-speak.

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