Welcome to the journey of understanding what the red flags that are commonly missed by victims. Every victim’s story is different yet there are common behaviors that most of them endure. Remember that every narcissist molds themselves into exactly what you want, what you are looking for in a person, what your assets are and what your vulnerabilities are. Every game is similar and customized for you. Bottom line, their behaviors are based on you. If you are an easy target they might not have to pull all the tricks out of the bag. If you are a person with stronger boundaries they might have to work a little harder to win you and a little harder to destroy you.
We break the Red Flags into four categories – How they act – patterns to watch for – personality traits – what happened. Get started anywhere in the list and use the menu in the sidebar of each page to navigate to learn more red flags of a narcissist.
If you are just learning we suggest you start by understanding some of the terms that are used in this narc-world – we call this narc-speak.
