What are the traits of someone a narcissist will target?

Narcissists are conmen and woman and they are very calculating in choosing a victim as the next supply.

The list of attributes of victims vary but this should get you started.

Empaths – Empaths are self-sacrificing and love to share and give, and the narcissist wants to take so it’s a pretty good match

Codependents – a codependent wants to make everyone happy and they need the love of a partner to feel loved, so a narcissist will spot you in a crowd

People with low self-esteem – Not having the self-courage to speak up when someone does something to abuse you makes you a great target.

Divorced/lonely – or newly out of a relationship, at this point the victim is vulnerable and wants to feel loved again, so that is exactly what a narcissist pretends to do

People Pleasers – People pleasers love to help and heal everyone. They often give to others and never to themselves

Intelligence – Narcissists seek out people that are bright and on their game. Its more fun for them to destroy someone who has been successful. If you have a good work ethic, they target you because they know you will fulfill their needs efficiently

Dependable – Victims that are dependable are a great source for the narcissist, because we will always be there for them.

Nurturing – if you are this type of person a narcissist gets very excited because they want to be cared for

The fixer – if you think if you can love them enough you can fix them, they identify this early and while they do not think they have an issue they know you will continue to take abuse and try to fix them

Trusting – They rip your trust into pieces and leave you confused

No Boundary making skills – a narcissist will begin slowly to test your boundaries, the easier you give in the better supply you will make

Kind – Loving – helpful – caring – trusting – beautiful souls

Experts estimate that 6% of the population are narcissists (total world population estimate 2016 – 7.4 billion). If each narcissist only affects one person that is 444 million victims. Why is there is not more awareness? We all know the average single narcissist changes partners quite frequently so if we just double that number we are at 888 million people trying to find help.