What the heck just happened?
Horrific lies? Confusion? You are not alone… and you are not crazy!
You might have been in a relationship with a narcissist or other type of emotional abuser. For now, forget trying to learn what label they were narcissist or sociopath because much of the data is the same. Just focus on your survival right now because your world is probably upside down.
Are you confused at the way a relationship ended? The “Grand Finale” is a term that reflects the common factor in the unmasking of a con-artist called a narcissist. Disorientation lurks in the beginning of this “discard”, because you will soon learn that everything was fake. Spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, co-workers, church members, parents and children can suffer a mental illness that makes them unable to have empathy, and they are pathological liars. They often lead false lives in order to suck like a vampire from what is called a “supply”. They have huge egos and do not like to be challenged or caught in a lie, if you do catch them – be careful they are very dangerous. They will do anything to take you go down.
Narcissist Abuse Support a website that pulls it all together to help you understand and become educated so that you can help yourself. If you are here now you are probably in the detective stage.
I am a survivor of a lifetime of Narcissist Abuse and I didn’t know it until just a few months ago. You will survive emotional abuse at the hands of whatever you want to call them IF you educate yourself and learn your role so you can heal and forgive yourself. You might lose your confidence, doubt yourself, blame yourself and find yourself in a very dark place. But with hope and your kind loving heart your passion for life will return after a Narcissist event.
At the beginning of my journey to learn “what the f**k just happened” I thankfully found the answers I needed on the thing we call the internet, YouTube, blogs, podcasts, medical websites and support groups have been my teacher and I have come so far. I have compiled YouTube Videos, resources, expert list that are easily arranged by topic to help your journey .
“The whole Narcissist experience is a soul contract bringing us to our unresolved wounds to make the unconscious – conscious so we can free ourselves to be our higher self. “ – Melanie Tonia Evans
“Did you have a relationship that was too good to be true?”
There are things you need to learn so you can heal. Education and self-care are essential to the option of moving on and staying stuck.
There are many emotions you will travel thru in this recovery
- Full of Guilt and Remorse
- Embarrassed and Ashamed
Welcome to a virtual reality world of the narcissist – this land has no magic wands but evil kings, queens and soulless beings will try to knock you down.